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Am i doing the right thing by cheating?

Asked by kittykatlovr814 over 2 years ago, 10 answers.

I'm feeling so guilty and terrible right now.I just told this guy that I would go out with him,thing is is that I already have a boyfriend.The reason is because my boyfriend has been such an ass hole for the longest time.he ASKED me to shave my arms...

beacause he couldn't stand having his friends make fun of my hairy arms.he's made fun of my family, and even talks about how my dad's job is so easy (my dad's an anesthesioligist-doctor who puts people to sleep before surgery)he even said that it was so easy a DOG cud do it.I don't know wut to do.I've been crying every night this past week and I can't stop.PLEASE help me!!

Answered by xxxcandy_girlxxx on May 10, 2007, 07:04PM
107 answers

honestly i guy who isnt down to respect your family isnt worthstaying with. im not saying its right to cheat on someone but if i were you i would really look at the situation and see who treats you better.....

Answered by beequeen23 on May 10, 2007, 07:22PM
4 answers

if the guy doesn't respect you and your family it might mean he doesn't care about your feelings

Answered by locoluna on May 10, 2007, 07:32PM
1827 answers

If your bf has no respect for you then dump him. Then you are free to pursue any relationship you want. Cheating is not the answer, the best thing for you is to dump this bf of yours and give the other guy a chance becos your not happy with this guy anyway.

Answered by angelfire2708 on May 10, 2007, 07:45PM
7802 answers

Why are you with him? Cheating is not the answer to your problem. Dumping him is. You teach people how you want to be treated...and if you keep allowing him to disrespect you....he will keep doing it!!

Answered by sportsieteengurl on May 10, 2007, 07:58PM
36 answers

Cheating = trouble, just dumb the old ass and go with the new guy

Answered by memento_amor on May 10, 2007, 10:58PM
15 answers

Pretty much the same thing. If your bf is being such a dick, then leave him. don't cheat, it'll give you a bad rep. at best. a similar thing happened to a friend of mine, who ended up cheating too. but she dropped her bf, he didin'r really respaect or care about her. best of luck with your love life.

Answered by funadvice on May 11, 2007, 05:47AM
53985 answers

if i was u id dumb the boyfriends u got now cuz he sounds like a jerk and id look for a new one or talk to the one ur talkin 2 now but tell him u wanna be friends and dont cheat on a guy it hurt ppl to much take my advice i cheat on my bf n i feel bad about it

Answered by pjs_beau on May 11, 2007, 10:36AM
8 answers

Your boy friend is abusive. Over time the abuse will increase. You sound too young to be in a relationship. Dump this bitch, get out and date lots of guys. Don't make any of them your boy friend. Plan to go out with at least 100 guys before you commit to a relationship. Eventually you'll meet a guy who you'll like and who'll treat you right. Only, then should you consider a relationship.

Answered by sk8terpunkkid on Jun 09, 2007, 12:26AM
142 answers

first off cheating is bad but i say dump your boy firend if he dont respect you family he ant worth dating : )

Answered by pjs_beau on Jun 09, 2007, 09:37AM
8 answers

Don't cheat. Dump the jerk. This guy has no class. Why would you want to be with him? There are lots of guys and they're not all jerks (a lot of them are, but not all). Grow-up, get some respect for yourself. Don't take this kind of abuse from anyone. Unless you are 30 years old, fat and ugly start playing the field. Don't go looking for a boy friend; look for friends and see what develops. You'll be pleasantly suprised at what you will find. Some guys even prefer women with hairyarms. First, be happy in any relationship you choose to be in.

Ask your dad to take you to work one day and let you watch what he does. He holds peolples lives in his hands every day. Not what I'd call an easy job.