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Am i a sex addict

Asked by hot_chik_4_rent over 3 years ago, 5 answers.

im 14 and I like to read about sex whenever I can I do is there sumthing wrong with me? I even sometimes wish I would get raped!

Answered by beckygurl87 on Jul 16, 2006, 03:46AM

Never Ever wish that you were raped! But the thing about liking sex I know that I really do like sex and I dont thiink that it is a bad thing that you read about it. And I think it's normal for teens to be curious about sex and want to experince it

Answered by meggs on Jul 16, 2006, 10:19AM
45 answers

A rape fantasy is a very common fantasy. You are 14, it is normal for you to be curious about sex. Reading about it and thinking about it is healthy. But having sex right now for you is irresponsable. Ultimately, you do not know what you are getting into.
Rape, is not about sex. That is what is done - but men who rape women do it to be in control of someone else. They do it to hurt you. Most women who get raped, were raped by someone they know. This ruins relationships and makes you feel like you made a mistake. Although this fantasy is common, don't act on it. When you are older and have a very COMMITED boyfriend and a comfortable, open sex life; ask him to act out this fantasy for you.
Meg

Answered by imiz on Jul 16, 2006, 04:45PM
62 answers

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na ur fine hun! i mean i love to read about sex and know soo much, even if its like a little thing about it, i just wanna know! lol.. ah human nature i suppose.. relax, ur normal! x

about the rape thing, yea loadsa girls have fantasies about that.. but its more emotinal then n e one could think! x i mean gettin raped by ur boyfriend as a major suprise is okay, i mean its planned but spontanious, u know what i mean? x but gettin raped just like that, is just not right..

But n e way, bottom line is, its okay to know about sex love.. to read about it, to watch it, its okay!! x

IMiz x

Answered by uhhmazingme on Jul 15, 2008, 03:38PM
52 answers

to read about sex is perfectly normal
it makes your imagination run wild
(which is good) and wishing that your raped is
you wanting to have sex, but have it seem that
you didnt want to. But do you honestly want some
person that you don't know coming and totally invading
your body. wait for someone you can trust and be safe when
that time comes. but read about sex, is good for your mind in a way