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Dad has decided he doesnt like my boyfriend

Asked by venus1992 5 months ago, 6 answers.

My dad has decided he doesnt like my boyfriend who I have been with for 3 months, he hasnt said anything before that and now he just decides I need to break up with him. He doesnt even live around where I live and my boyfriend lives. He said he was a predator (because hes had sex) but my dad has done so much more thats wwaayy worse!!! (high school for him was like a sex playground) but he said it was also my descision and I really love my boyfriend, I need help on what I should exactly do.

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Answered by hollywoodglam on May 09, 2008, 01:21PM
| 9 answers.

ok
what I would do
is not bring up your boyfriend at all.

my mothers being excatly the same.
your farther is being protective
because thats what dads and mams do!

but
aslong as your boyfriend isnt pushing you into anything
whats the problem?
your farther wil repect you more
if you sit down
and explain to him
"look dad, I know he's had sex, doesnt mean hes going to force me into it
I'll do it when im ready and I'm not.
and to be honest I'd probably tell you if we did because I want to have a relationship with you
where, we can just be open"

give him all that crap
and he'll be fine
seriously
x

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favorite girl Answered by piker187 on May 09, 2008, 01:33PM
| 1091 answers.

I'd trust your dads judgment, he knows what he's talking about because he probably looks at your boyfriend and can see right through him. its a gift that several guys have, they know exacly what type of person another male is just by talking to em for five minutes. I have it, and im not being arrogant, im serious.

kitty Answered by ty on May 09, 2008, 01:53PM
| 5664 answers.

Ok so have you considered that your dad is not an insane person and therefore did not randomly decide to start disliking your boyfriend? Maybe he knows something or has seen your boyfriend do something that he simply does not want to tell you about? I'm not saying he is right, but it is possible he has his reasons... Calling him a predator sounds like an excuse, try and get to the root of why he doesnt want you going out with him... (he may not tell you, father's perogative unfortunately, but he may decide to share his concerns with you...)
Tell him you want to make an informed decision and you value his opinion, you just want to know why he thinks the way he does...

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on May 09, 2008, 03:01PM
| 42467 answers.

do whatever makes you happy.
think of what could happen.
and just go for it.
lifes not complicated once you get down to one question:
whats the best for you?

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on May 09, 2008, 04:41PM
| 42467 answers.

trust your dad, becase e's been there,

Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on May 10, 2008, 07:03AM
| 2367 answers.

 
Your dad is leaving it up to you. Accordingly you should try to communicate with your father and find out what it is about your boyfriend that bothers him. He might be misinformed or he may have genuine information. Consider his opinions but don't argue with him about them.

 

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