Afraid of your family's thoughts

if you are bi what should you do when you are afraid to admite it to other people and your family because you are afraid of what they will think of u?

I think you should just tell them. A lot of my friends told me they are bi, everybody thinks of them the same. A real friend would be okay with it. And family shouldn't think differently of you.

u are who you r and no one else so just go for it

I am getting advice from this because I need to find a way to tell my family as well:-)

just tell them!!! like 4 of my friends are bi I treat them da same...their parents treat them da same

if you want to tell ya friends you can, but make sure they are your real friends , so they wont tell other people that you dont want to know that you are bi and stuff...

if you are not that close to your family I suggest you not tell them wait till you much older , but if you are close just sit them down and tell them, im sure they will understand

well you are 13 and they may not even be comfortable talking to you about relationships with you at all. If they know you already date then you need to be open with them. I think as long as you are not sexually active and in a relationship you may want to wait until you are a bit older. They may mistake this for you being young and not knowing what you want in life and they may think this will pass. But if you have a great relationship with your parents, I would just tell them.

Ps. Love your picture, that dog is so cute.

IMHO, it's none of their business, and if you suspect they will react negatively, just don't tell them.

..Why do you NEED to tell anyone?

see what they think about it first like ask them what they think of bi people and if they seem ok just tell them