About to lose my mind...

Omg okay I am about to lose my mind im sooo pissed my sons father is out with his dumbazz friend who I hate doing god knows what and has the nerves to get mad at me because im mad that he hadnt called..then my 2yr old is in my face cryn for nothing at...

all..all because he wants to go downstairs and I wont let him my hands are shaking and my heart is pumping fasst..what can I do.aghhh

OKAY DALENEZBITT THATS GUYS PROBLEMS THESE DAYS THEY THINK THEY CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT IF HED LIKE TO B SINGLE AND NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT I HAVE TO SAY THEN FINE OTHERWISE SCREW YOU...AND NO IM NOT GOING TO GET OFF MY LAPTOP FOR WHAT FOR HIM TO KEEP CRYN because EITHER WAY IM NOT GOING DOWN STAIRS I HAVE ALREADY TRIED EVERYTHING SO UNTIL you WIN THE BEST PARENT AWARD DONT TELL ME HOW TO PARENT MY CHILD..D*CK

well for 1 you can get off the compter and entertain your son who is on TWO for god sake, and theres nothing you can do about the kids dad he has a life he can live it which ever way he chooses!!

Relax. Breathe in, breathe out. Calm down.

1. calm yourself down and tell your child to stop it and give him somthing..
2. as for your husband, do the same to him next time.
make him stay home while you go out and PARTY!

2 is optional.
but yeah calm down because you dont want to take all your anger on your child.

I would say the best way to get your point across is to not talk to him for as long as possible. Its hard and slow but in the long run I have always believed silence is the best way to get a husband or wife to really take a look at themselves.

By the way your child is two years old, there is no reason you should try and comfort a crying two year old when you are this angry. A two year old can handle himself just fine in his room for a while. I have a two year old myself and when there are two people angry in the room then it only makes them even more angry.

I disagree about the silent treatment...Punishing another person for their behavior in a marriage backfires...it strangles even the good communications. DO talk to him about what you expect and want from him...but wait until you are feeling calm and the anger has subsided.

DO NOT take you hurt and anger out on the baby...He doesn't realize what you're really pissed about...he's just being a baby. Put yourself in his little shoes...and look at it from his point of view...how do you like it when someone takes their anger out on you, when you've done nothing??

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