1 year & getting closer part 2

The thing is we both are trying not to have sex. Hes not pressuring me, its just his friends are making fun of him because he is a 19 year old virgin. I just dont know what to do. We try to make little rules for ourselves so when we make out we dont get...

too into it. Its just so difficult. We want eachother so much but we dont want kids...and does it really make the relationship more difficult?

the oldest virgin was a female and she was 105
theres nothiung wrong with being a virgin, either forevere just because you dont like sex, or for a while because your unsure about it or want to wait for the right person
his mates are just typical guys who dont understand, and probably think everyone should be having sex, and this is pretty stupid
he should stand up to his mates and just say, what I do or dont do is my buisness and my choice
as for kids, obviously with sex theres a chance of falling pregnant
even if you are protected theres still a small chance because nothing is 100% guarenteed exept for abstinece
if you want to have sex, learn about it first
to avoid anything happening you dont want
both learn about the male and female reproductive system and
birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds
it would be good for you to go on a form of birth control and double up by using condoms as well when hes ready to have sex

you obviously want sex so just have it.
wear a condom

Here is some info I found, I've had it in my documents so I dont have the website

**Unmarried couples who choose to have sex probably feel more physically satisfied at first. But the more important question is, Do they really grow closer in lasting and important ways beyond that physical relationship? A sexual relationship between people who are dating can contribute to the breakdown of those relationships. It's well known that couples who live together and have a sexual relationship before marriage are more likely to divorce. The fact is, sex before marriage isn't good preparation for a marriage. That's especially true if you have two, three, four or a dozen sexual partners by the time you find the person you want to stay with forever. Most people who make sex a part of dating relationships will have several partners before marriage. They think a relationship will last, but it doesn't. So they go on to the next partner. And the next. And the next. That mindset—and the consequences that follow—can be difficult to overcome, even after a person is married.
Dating is not supposed to be a state of perfect contentment. It's supposed to be about finding the right one, and preparing for a good marriage. No one should think that a string of sexual relationships will lead to a lasting love during the dating process. If you do, you'll likely deal with a great deal of dissatisfaction and be very unfulfilled.**