18 and really want a baby

well im 18 I was pregnant when I was 17 and I was so happy my mum and dad were very supportive but I had a miscarrige so it left a hole in me I felt like it was a sign telling me im not ready for a baby mabye that sounds a little crazy but anyway im 18 now and cant stop thinking of having a baby I feel selfish because I got a boyfriend he is great but were not as series as I want and I havent got a good job I live with my parents I know if I did have a baby I would have so much support and money but thats not the problem I want a father for my child that I know is going to be there no matter every child needs a father and even though theres so many things telling me its not the time for me to have a baby there are so many more thoughts that are telling me yes im ready I love kids every one comments that il be a good mum but stil I really dont know what to do I want to get as much advise as I can please anything wil help thank u

hi im cassie and I am 18 and just had a baby and I am telling you don't do it you should wait I have no money I never get 2 see her her dad dosen't care about her and it's hard wait till you get married if your smart

Cassie knows what she's talking about.You have to think about the future.. not only your's but also your baby's.. I'm really happy that your parents are so supportive of this.. but if you ask me they're a little too supportive.. You shouldn't be having babies so early in your life.. atleast not in today's world.. And you also say that your current boyfriend isn't so serious about this relationship so why do you want to take a chance especially if its your kid's life we're talking about.. you love kids a lot don't you?.. and you say you haven't got a good job.. why don't you try working in a day care centre?.. that way you might get a taste of whats to come when you do get your own kids.. I do hope Cassie's doing well right now.. So you think about what I said.. I hope it was useful.. Take Care..

Smiles,
~Kervin~

thank you guys my parents think im to young but they wil support me if I do have a baby and I really think its good to wait this site is great cassie hope your doing oke thank u

hi im chelsea
im 15
and im pregnant
my mum and stepdad are not supportive, me and my boyfriend really want this baby. but as my boyfriend is older thn me, mum has thretned 2gt the police involved if I keep it
im scared I want b able 2 av kids l8r on if I gt rid
so im tellin you tke the chance and b happy asong as uv gt the support
x x x x

thank you my parents dont want me to have a baby cause im to young but they will suport me if I do have a baby but yeah thank you guys for the advise it helpt me and cassie hope your doin oke im going to

well thank you guys a lot every bit of advise is great and chelsea think about it befor you do anything you might regret it
its a hard choice to make but I really dont agree with your parents im sorry mabye they think there doin the right thing but really think about it

I think you should do what will make you feel the way you want to feel. My little sister had my neice when she was 15. She isn't the best mom and that breaks my heart. I think she she would have actually wanted her when she got pregant things would be different. So listen to YOUR heart not other people!

Patience until you find the right person. A baby is not a teddy bear.

Im not saying you shouldnt have baby. But you should at least wait until you are in a more serious relationship and have money of your own. My son is one years old and my parents are very supportive but there is only really so much they can do.

I have a good job I live on my own and I have a great boyfriend and family im 18 and I want a baby I just want some opinions

Hello
I'm 21 and live with my 27 year old boyfriend. We want to get married and have children someday. Its been 2 years since we've been together and I still don't have a ring on my finger. I want children so much, but I think he's not ready. Should I leave him? Or is 2 years too soon and I'm the one acting too fast?

This is for the younger Lady who had the miscarriage and is now having a few problems dealing with what choice to make. I would like to give My personal Opinion. I think the best thing for you right now, is to wait befor getting pregnant finish school, and go to college get a career that you want or at least a stabled job that you know you will enjoy and like for the rest of your life and then think about getting engaged or married. And then after a few more years discuss your feelings for your partner and how you feel about raisinga child together and bring in a new baby into this world. It's a lot of work, it will not be easy and you can't always relie on your parents to help take care of your child. It dosn't work that way. Your the mother the babies father is the daddy you both raise it not your Mommy and daddy. It works best when your in your own home too. Because then you actually get your own privacy and then you don't have a bunch on conflicted problems with both your parents getting in your way trying to rise your child the way they did you. But I do wish you the best and I know your older your caring, loving, and generous. All you want is a family, and to be loved by all. But I've been through the same problems as you. The only difference is I've never been pregnant befor but I've tried a quite a few times. And now I'm relieved the My fiance and I decided to wait. God bless you and your family, friends, and boyfreind I wish you both the best of luck. ~Love always Ashlie~

thanks for the advise guys but I got over that way of thiniing was just a lil thing I was going through im now studying beauty and happy

Go 4 a gangbang dear. Make it happen! )

Oh, another piece: wait for about 7-8 years and maybe you will have such a father for your baby. Or, get an old dude to watch after you!
I say it's better to play with the dolls instead of makind babies. I know you saw it's possible, but still...think about it better. Or, you could post an announcement in the newspaper: "18 year old girl looking for a father for her future child. This announcement is 3 years old."
I hate saying that to young ladies, but this sucks!

Listen to loveableashes and the others. They look more serious than me :D

Hunnie, This is my opinion cuase my sister got pregnet at 17 && LOVE's it. I think Maybe you should make a stronger reltionship with your botfriend first && Then sit down && talk with him about how serious you are about this. Its a great desision if your sure that thats what you want in life =]]

Hi Im Brandi and I know exactly where you are coming from...I am 18 and I am DYING to be a mom.I was pregnant at 16 and miscarried.Now I am trying everything to become pregnant again.I think you should go for it..sit down and talk with your boyfriend and make it happen.

I would not even think about having a baby till your married

If you really think that your boyfriend is going to care then trust your instincts. Ask him if he is ready to have a baby with you. If he says yes then go a head but if he says no then wait until the right guy comes along.

sincerly Mariah