single mum of 2 grown up children from the UK, recently became a nanny to a beautifull baby girl and grandchild number 2 is due in december... I am a qualified nursery nurse and health advisors, i have worked as a housing officer and a bank clerk and now i'm working for the local county council...i have had clinical depression for 30 y ears and have just been diagnosed with bipolar 2... have experienced 17 yrs of relationship abuse in 2 relationships....have recently met the love of my life, we're both nearly 50 and have just started living together... he has ADD...we are both bikers, though at the moment i just ride pillion due a bike crash a few years ago.. in the process of getting my own trike on the road... tattooed and pierced and refusing to grow old gracefully, not a stereo typical 40+yr old woman and a bit unconventional, but kind, honest and understanding and a total fruit cake... i'm a mum who's a good listener... here to chat and listen if anyone out there needs me, no matter what age or sex you are.