Would you consider this cheating?

ok so my boyfriend hung out w/ these 2 diff girls and the 1st girl he said I guess really liked him and kept trying to kiss him and he told her that he had a girlfriend but according to him I guess she wouldn’t get off him and like he let her kiss him but he refused to open his mouth the 2nd girl he was at her house and like she kept trying to hold his hand and was so persistant that he gave up and was like wuts the big deal..then she laid her head on his shoulder and kissed him it was only till she tried to take his shrit offf that he was like ‘im leaving so im wondering if I sould consider him a cheater even these girls like we the ones to consistantly put the moves on him??

Answer #1

I think this would be considered cheating. because if he wasnt he would have let them go that far, he would have told the to stop. and like mentions earlier, you should find out the girls side of the story, I’ve been cheated on. its not fun.

Answer #2

Have you heard their side of the story? It may have not happened the way he said, and why is he hanging out at other girls’ houses in the first place? Even if he told you about his encounters, he is probably not being completely honest with you. Think about it, do you always tell the whole truth when you want to make it look like someone else is in the wrong? Usually not, you will say what makes you look the best so that others will give you sympathy when you tell them the story (even I am guilty of that…)! Yes, he sounds like he’s a cheater and you should probably break up with him! If not, he needs to quit putting himself in such intimate situations with other females and you need to lay down some ground rules about them as well! Good luck!

Answer #3

Seems like he likes the attention. He has control of his own actions, but apparently his actions werent telling the girls to back off. It doesnt matter who put the moves on who. What matters is he went along with it. For one thing, he shouldnt even be hanging out with other girls…alone, especially going to their house! Why isnt he hanging out with HIS guy friends when hes not with you, instead of girls? That should tell you something right there. He isnt someone I would trust a whole lot.

Answer #4

He’s narcissitic… and WHATEVER the story is, it still takes TWO PEOPLE to kiss. Yes he cheated

Drop him.

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