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Why would you ditch your friend?

Hm. What do YOU think is more important? Your best friend, or your boy/girlfriend? I personally thought that your best friend was a bit more important than your boy/girlfriend, because, well.

  1. You’ve known them longer. (usually)
  2. You (should) trust them more.
  3. They’re the ones you go to when your ‘beloved’ breaks your heart. I thought that my friend wouldn’t have ditched me for her boyfriend, but looks like I was wrongg. <.< Hm. You’d think that if you’re best friend was the one who got you and your boyfriend together, you’d be somewhat grateful and be there for her when she needs you instead of totally just ditching her for your boyfriend. *-__- Anyways, would you ditch your friend for your boy/girlfriend?
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Answer #1

No, I wouldn’t. I’m always loyal to my friends.

However, she may have not intentionally abondoned you. Try thinking of her position.

Hope this helps! :)

Cnorris

Answer #2

I would never ditch a friend. :( That’s just wrong, however you look at it. She will probably realize her mistake and come back to you, though. :)

Answer #3

I did once for a women I loved but ditching any one is just genrrally bad probally better to just not ditch and just plan seperate activitys

Answer #4

well lets see if it was between my girlfriend or my best friend, I dont see why ther has to be a choice I would prefer working out the problem to the best of my abilities but if it really came down to picking which 1 then depending on how strong my feelings are for my girlfriend and the trust between my best friend.

Answer #5

There’s only one friend of mine I would do that to because she ditched me at a bar after the metal bands were done playing to go to a f*cking fast food place with a dude she wasn’t even datinf she was TRYING and FAILED, I might add to get with. So, yes, but only her. Everyone else I would ask them if they wanted to come with us. AARRGG! Sorry, flashback of a terrible day!

Answer #6

For me personally I’ve known my boyfriend longer then any of my other friends (he’s my elementary school crush, met him in 2nd and im 19 now) and he is my best friend, I dont make plans with people if I think theres a posibility I wont be able to follow through with them.

Answer #7

never what a bit(h. I would stick by my friend 99% of the time

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