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Why? Was This A Mistake Or Should I Learn To Love him.?

Hi well last night I started a relationship with my new boyfriend. Im not sure if it was the right choice because I dont evan no if I love/like him. I was kinda bullied into it so I feel so foolish now. should I try and learn to love him or what ? by the way he really really likes me.

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Answer #1

If you didn’t like someone, then you shouldn’t have said yes. You can’t blame dating him, on simply ‘being bullied’. It was, overall, your choice to say yes. Think about the poor guy, dating a girl who didn’t even the slightest bit attraction towards him. If you don’t like him, then break it off now, save the guy a heartbreak. He’s better off not being with a girl that was bullied into liking him. If you want to give it a go though and try to see if it works, with all due respect do it. But you can’t excuse dating him as a mistake just because you were bullied into it. It’s your mouth, you said yes.

Answer #2

At least give him a chance…you should NEVER feel pressured to date someone you don’t know if you like in the first place because that’s not fair to the other person or yourself really. You shouldn’t let other peoples opinions or whatever effect your decisions either, you should be able to be your own person with your own decisions and opinions. You may want to give him a chance if you don’t like him just let him know you are better off friends and you don’t think you two are compatible on a romantic level. Next time this happens though, go with your gut and don’t say yes or ask a guy out if you don’t even like him that is just playing with their feelings. Hope this helped!

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