Why is it different with him.

You are not being a slut. I think you are a bit too young to be having sex (16 is like the minimum best starting time if one is mentally ready). And I have to say to a certain extent, I think these boys may be using you for sex. Boys at your age are frankly morons and are goofing around. Even the older boys in high school are 99.9% morons. They are not mature. I think you need to calm down on the sex because it may end badly. (bad reputation, Sexually Transmitted Infection, HIV, pregnancy, etc.) You really should be focusing on other things like school and your friends. I think the reason you do not moan or make any sounds is because you feel awkward with him since it really isnt a true relationship. He is using you for sex. And thus there is no emotion while you two are doing it. Its almost like a job. Even if it feels good, sometimes it is not worth it, especially since sex is more than just feeling good.

If you need anymore advice, funmail me! -emma

moaning is a way of communication during sex, girls moan to show that it feels good, and also comes as part of a happy, loving relationship. people who have one-night-stands don’t usally experience any of that, the sex is usually just drunken, or for te sake of it. you don’t seem to be in a very loving relationship, so maybe the feelings are not there, so you cannot express yourself. maybe you loved ‘the other guys’ or maybe you faked it.

I do agree with the other people here, you are wayyy to young to be having sex, you are a child, sex is soemthing for when you are a bit older and right now you are obviously not ready for this kind of relationship. I’m not being horrible, but many bad things can come from having sex too young. I had a girl in my school year, and at 15 she was pregnant, giving her a very bad reputation, being called a slut etc. so you should watch yourself!

I wouldnt categorize you as being a “slut” necessarily, but I would as being easy!

well gee, thank you for putting me down. I don’t appreciate you judging me the way you just did, I asked for advice about me and someone NOt advice on how to live my life, did I say I screw everyone in my neighborhood and the next ? no -- so dont make it seem like I do, because I most certainly dont --