Why Is Everybody Having Sex?

I just don’t get why everybody is having sex. im 13 in the 8th grade. today my friend come up to me and said are you a virgin? I said yea are you. and she said no, I’ve done it 2 times! I was like oh my gosh, I thought you were a good girl. I don’t get how people can just come right out and say that! if I happened to do that I would die if someone found out!! I mean I really like this guy but I just don’t want to go out with him for sex!! all im wanting is my first kiss!! :)

sometimes I feel like im the only one that dont want to have sex? can somebody my age please tell me why sex is so important to do?

Answer #1

I’m definitely not your age - but I was a virgin at your age as well. The reason why people have sex so young because they feel pressured to not be a virgin anymore - plus so many people in movies/tv shows are having sex so they feel like its okay for them to do as well. Don’t let other people influence what you do though, that’s good that you are a virgin. I sure hope your friend didn’t have sex with 2 different guys already, that’s just horrible. You should wait like you are doing now and don’t let anyone change your mind. Virginity is such a special thing that you can never get back and if you give it to the wrong person you’ll regret it forever. So just take your time, enjoy your youth, don’t bother with that stuff. Someday you’ll be in a serious relationship and you’ll be happy you waited. At age 13 nobody is mature enough to have sex, there’s way too much responsibility needed.

Answer #2

You have to remeber though that some of the people at your school will just say they are having sex when they aren’t and so with those people plus the other people that are having it it seems like way more people becasue of that…

Answer #3

because kids these days grew up with sex. everyone talks about it. I dont see why that means you have to do it, your right. it doesnt make sense.

Answer #4

I know! I’m 13 and some of the people at my school have already been pregnant before!

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