Why cant I make my boyfriend cum with my hand?

Ok, so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 19 months and we have great sex. At first he found it hard to cum through sex as he had only ever felt his own hand on himself. That got sorted and the sex is amazing now. Then I realised I just couldnt make him cum with my hand no matter what and I didnt no why, then when he stopped playing with himself and I tried for a while it worked(this was when I could do it every day as I had moved in with him). I dont mind too much that I still cant make him cum with my mouth because it just means he wants sex more as he says I am amazing when I give him head and normally make him want to cum. Well now I’ve had to move back with my parents and he obviously started to use his own hand again. Now I cant make him cum again. It seams as though he just gets used to a certain hand as when I could do it he couldnt but has anyone got any tips or their own experiences that ould help me do it and him do it at the same time? He has said he will stop playing until I can do it again but I feel bad that he will be missing out until he next sees me. any help would be great :)

Answer #1

GET A BI SEXUAL GIRLFRIEND TO HELP AFTER SOME HOT GIRL ON GIRL ACTION.FOR HIM TO WATCH…MAYBE THE GAGA GIRL WILL HELP!

Answer #2

he knows where his sensitive spots are so while your doing it with your hand have him put his hand on top of yours and let him move. you’ll feel exactly how fast he likes it and feel where his spots are that really get him also when you give him head there are little white dots on the edge of the head of a guys penis lick em it always works

Answer #3

here got 1 for you my girlfriend and I where foolong around and she was gvngmy a hj and she couldnt get my 2cum so her mom ordered this cream and ts nothing like a hand cream it gets the dck for feeling to it and when she was gnng me a hj I cumed rght and her face in lke 30 sec and avg hj forme is lke 20 min ll pm the cream t s cheap 2 lke 5 $ for a bg toob of this stuff

Answer #4

Ok so while your fooling around.. say to him.. tell me how you want it.. Say it passionately to show him your eager to know. Get him to describe his pace and how he likes it. If your still abit baffled… and nothing works.. Try starting off REALLLYY slowly wanking him., kissing his neck and giving him little bites down his chest.. (or if theres somet you know turns your guy on do that!) Keep the slow wank going on for a couple of minutes then naturaly you will feel turned on. Make that known,, the occasional moan ,, keep kissing him and build up faster and faster. When you hear his moans ask him if he wants his faster and take it from there… I can understand.. I had a guy like that. But you will get that.. communication is everything :) good luck x

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