why can't I get a girlfriend?

I have been single for a year and a half now and before me and my ex dated I use to have girls every where that liked me. now it seems like no girls even know I exist.

Answer #1

Bros before hos. Get some bros with hookups. Start trying to become more mature for your age and hang out with older people. It will give you that mysterious look if you hang with older, cooler groups around the certain people you want to notice you. I did that with my friend, he has been my neighbor for awhile and is a year older than me and he has become a really great skater and he sorta has a crew. Whenever I got to junior high I started hanging out with him more and less of my own grade, it helped a little at the time but when you can stand on your own the girls will come to you. So basically, get back to where you dont have to try to get girls and they will become tied to you.

Answer #2

maybe your just not putting yourself out there. cause maybe you might still have feelings for your ex,

Answer #3

No no no… Girlfriends are not something you look for. They just come and GO. Women respond to confident men too… its a fact. So my point is if your attitude is “why cant I get a girlfriend”, then your probably coming off a little desperate. Ever see the nice guy go home alone and the asshole leave with the girl…

When you had a girl you didnt need one! Get it? THey really do think different than us.

my advice Keep being a nice guy that enjoys relationships, but in the meantime chill. Find things to do that make you happy and feel good. (constructive things, gym, sports, whatev) While you do this casually talk to girls on a platonic level, as many as you can. Keep up your you time though and you will see things start to develop. I hope this helps.

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