Why* am I ready for a babey but even more... Sex?

Me and my boyfrend have been togther for 9 months now and I want a babey sooo badly but im only 14 bout to be 15 next month but anyway hes like we will have our kids when its the rite time. I am still a virgin and I told my boyfrend that I want him to take my v-card. But im sorda scared bc of how big he is, soo cud that be a bad thing at the moment and also we have a distance relationship at da moment so im really stuck… Help a sista out

Answer #1

Ok sweetie take advice from someone has seen teenage mothers threw out my whole life growing up. This is not something you want to do you are so young and have your whole life a head of you. Dont let it go to waste. I agree with your boyfriend when he said that it will happen when the time is right. Being a teenage mother is not as fun as it sounds. Yea sure it would be so much fun to always have someone to play with and dress up and show of like a doll but you have to think about the childs future. On the not so fun note of being a teenage mom you have to wake up in the middle of the night for feedings, diaper changes and when the babies sick they barely sleep. And being up with a newborn every 2-4 hours and having to go to school would be a lot on your plate. Now the sex issue if you have a long distance relationship it may complicate things. Sex always changes a relationship no matter how old you are. Again you have so much ahead of you in life wait a little bit and be sure that you really want him to be that special person. I am sure you will be a great mother when the time is right but if I were you I would finish school first. I hope I helped you.

Answer #2

I know this is not the answer your looking for but dont be so stupid im 20 now but when I was your age I thought I met the love of my life and he broke my heart and I got the worst depression problem … dont loose your virginity when your 15 its not worth it and I mean I wanted to aswell but this is what im going to tell u … you want to have kids so bad ok think of when you have a daughter and she needs that heart to heart mom daughteer talk are you really going to tell her you lost your virginity when you were 15 would you really want your daughter or son for that matter doing the same thing … that was always in the back of my mind and I waited till I was 18 to loose mine … and let me tell you if you feel that strong for your boyfriend now he will always be a part of you im still friends with that guy I told you about however I’ve had about 10 realationships since then and 3 serious ones im now with the love of my life and I feel that if I selpt with that guy when I was 15 I would regret it so much because we were so little and that love is nothing compared to what you will find in say 5 / 10 years from now… I know thats not what you want to hear and im sorry but that is my advice to you … good luck

Answer #3

This is why you should not reproduce:

  1. You can’t even spell baby right.
  2. You referred to your virginity as your v-card. Really??
  3. You’re scared of how big he is… ummm have you thought about how big a baby is? Prettty sure that childbirth is gonna hurt WAY more than sex.

Good grief.

Answer #4

KIDS @ 14 or 15 = BAD MOVE!!

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