Who is the ideal(perfect) guy?

I’m not a mean, hateful, or bitter ugly person. I’m said to be sweet, beautiful, shy-but outgoing at times person. If I’m such a good person why do stupid things happen to me. I’m so afraid to trust people now. The guys I’ve dated have all ended up cheating on me because I dont do anything sexual with them. I dont want to though. I want to stay an innocent virgin until I get married. Is that so hard to understand? Maybe I should just go for a totally different type of guy. Could you guys tell me what the guy I should search for should be like?-like what kind of guy would actually wait for his girlfriend to be ready for sex, no matter how long it takes(well its not going to take that long), what kind of traits should he have…personality…anything would be helpful. thnx.

Answer #1

Well huni there’s no easy way 2 explain it, but there is no perfect male as we all have our own flaws its down 2 the person that suits you best, but I agree with tan they have be both your partner and best friend…

Answer #2

I think I might look for a nerd, so cute when they get all nervous around a girl like me. Hehe I’m a nerd too but most people wouldnt guess that by looking at me. Thank you. What you said was very helpful.

Answer #3

Find a shy nerd. You sound a lot like my fiance, and if you’re looking for anyone like how she was, then find someone who will be your friend first. Then ask if they’d be in a relationship after getting to know them. Rome wasn’t built in a day.

But, if they are your friend, then they’ll understand why you don’t want to have sex. Understanding is a key part in love. That’s what you lacked in your previous relationships, so establish understanding and trust with someone through friendship rather than jumping headfirst into something you don’t know about at all. Understanding, dedication, and love all go hand in hand. Those are the things that make a relationship long-lasting, not matching up personality types or jumping into a random relationship. Keep this in mind in your future endeavors, and you’ll be fine.

Answer #4

awww hon! I’ve been in you posistion before - and I know it hurts and kills as hell when the guy you think that’s the one turn to be a BIG a55 JERK! :P you need a guy that’s matured! one who’ll understand you, respect you, care for you, stay COMMITED - through thick and thin, build you up to be a better person, shares some of the same intrists/goals/desires as you, one who loves and adores you and treats you as a princess! ♥ they’re hard to find, but they’re out there somewhere! in the mean time, just live you life to the fulliest, not worrying about the situation far too much, be open…but ready to judge between the princes and the jerks! :P

Answer #5

Any time. I am a Casanova, a die hard romantic! If I only know about one thing in this life, it’s love. Just remember to build a relationship over time. There’s no rush. If they rush it, they only want in your pants, not your heart. Remember that you’re still young and have a full life ahead of you and plenty of time to find that special person.

Answer #6

haha samy your full of it but your girlfriend is lucky to have u :)

Answer #7

haha me of course!!!

Answer #8

ya she is

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