Which girl should I choose?

I have a rather large problem. Two girls like me, but I only like one. If it seems simple, its not. I just broke up with the one I like a few months ago, and we had gone out before that. She also doesnt like me as much as I like her. On the other hand is the girl that likes me. I look at her as a good friend, but she wants to be more. Whenever im with her I make her laugh and I like to make her happy, but if I go out with her I would be sad. I don’t thank that I could realistically get the girl I like without a lot of luck and time, so that’s a factor too. also, lately I’ve composed some poetry about it, and this one kind sums it all up.

Her heart or mine? With those sad blue eyes She looks at me so That I cant hide the lies.

I don’t want to hurt her, But my heart screams out too. “You must take the other, You know you want to!”

I make her laugh But she does not make me. She gives me her heart, And from that I flee.

Her heart or mine? Should I pursue my love? Or make this girl happy And give my heart a shove.

Please help!

Answer #1

there is one simple answer. do not settle for anything that will not make you happy. please, do not make the same mistake I did. go for the girl that you like. sometimes time can be worth it. dont obsess over it, but do your best. you need to not worry about whoever is after you that you do not like. they are not worth it. this girl that likes you more than you like her wont bring you any happiness. it is nice to feel what it feels like for someone to like you and it makes you feel good to make them laught. it makes yourself feel more important. you cannot date her. you need to forget about her and move on to something better. seriously, do not settle for anything less than what you want. you will have a huge regret otherwise.

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