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Does the person ending the relationship feel pain?

when someone is trying to end the relationship, does he have pain too or only the one who is being punished. I was in this satiation I thought he is happy and enjoying but made me like a crazy person. I dont know can someone tell me because I want to sleep in rest. lol

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Answer #1

I am really sorry to hear about your break up. It all depends on the reason of you two breaking up. He might feel pain, it’s hard to say. More than likely he does though because he’s probably so used to having you around and when you’re not there anymore he’s going to be lonely and wish you were there. I highly doubt he’d tell you that because he has to make himself seem so manly, tough, and emotionless, but more than likely he is hurting too.

Answer #2

I’m sorry you’re hurting over this breakup. It is rare when break ups are clean and uncomplicated and people shake hands and end things. There is usually pain involved on both sides. No matter the reason for a break up at the end of the day you’re used to having this other person around, you’ve put time and emotional energy into this person, and it is usually painful breaking up. I highly doubt you’re the only one that is suffering.

Answer #3

It depends on why he would be ending it. If it’s because you have just drifted apart then yeah, he might have some pain because of hurting you. But if you’ve done something (like cheating, etc. ) then he would most likely be very hurt and angry. If he’s just being and *ss then no he wouldn’t feel any pain (Like if he was only with you to pass the time.)

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