When is it considered sexual harassment?

you are not dirty and you have not been violated this guy sounds like he was stalking you, and he COULD have possibly voiolated you but luckily he didnt if your ever in that stuation again alert one of the stores security guards and they will keep an eye on him, or even alert the cashier nothing happened,, he didnt voilate you, he di harass you though and stalk you because he did try to come onto you by saying do you want a man but you wernt violated

Sorry for the lengthy post.. and I’ve felt stupid because it shouldnt be a big deal, as I’ve mentioned Im sorry for those who really have been violated and in no way am relating my experience to them, Im sure they would embrace my experience with joy. But I cant change my feelings and it really upset me. Is this considered sexual harassment or should I keep telling myself it was no big deal and get over it? Thats what Id rather try to do.

well your not dirty, or stupid this man was abvously some sort of creep. You weren’t voilated so don’t say that if their are people around and he is saying something inapropriate tell people, make him back off, assert yourself. Its easier said then done but in this world you have to show that you are powerful and unafriad that is what creeps fear.