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What should I tell my girlfriend?

Ignore the question: I’m doin this frm my itouch so ignore any typos :)

Okay me and my girlfriend got into an arguement and she hung up in my face, so I yelled I hate you at her…well I guess it hurt her feelings or something badly so she tried callin her bestie who didn’t answer…so she tlkd to her cousin (who is a gossipy boy) and his bestfriend over heard. Now they were tlkin bout me and sayin all this stuff like WTF your girlfriend is cheating on u,and you wanna call me terrible cause I got angry and said something I didn’t mean…smh. So I confronted him bout it,now we been and arguement for two days. I have had problems wit my girlfriend and her friends lately they all cause drama wit something,& don’t like me for some reason…because they think Ima cheat because they all cheat… Am I wrong? What should I do? What do you think?

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Answer #1

I think you should send her a letter or get her in private to tell her you’re very sorry. Assure her that nothing will make you cheat on her, and tell her that her friends are filling her head with drama.

I too, am having not-so-good-luck with my love…but unlike you…I can’t do anything to prevent what’s going to happen…

Answer #2

I think if your relationship was secure and there was trust your girlfriend wouldn’t listen to anything anyone else says. The fact that she does though, is rather immature and it’s a never ending argument when you can’t convince your partner you are not lying (which you shouldn’t have to do in the first place). Her friends seem to enjoy drama and it seems like you don’t, so maybe it’s time to think about if there is an actual future in your relationship. If they all cheat and stuff too that could make them jump to conclusions, and if your gf did as well maybe she is paranoid that you are going to cheat on her because what goes around comes around.

Answer #3

I disagree a little bit, if she isn’t cheating and she hasn’t ever cheated on her then she shouldn’t have to reassure her she won’t cheat. Her girlfriend obviously has insecurities and that’s not her fault to have to deal with that. If there is no trust there is no relationship.

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