How to comfort my Dad during their divorce?

well the only family we have we cant live with cause my dad cant risk having to find a new job and its only my step uncle and he lives in a small place with his girlfriend… and the rest is on my moms side but no worries there they hate her too

&you know what? my mom cheated on my dad..they got devorced, but I still love my mom, I do think shes a slut but w.e, she’s mother, you can’t cut the person that gave you life totally out of your life. well you can, im just saying that’s me, I wouldnt just totally cut my mom out, I could never stop loving my mother, &im sure you can’t either. just think about it.

well the only family we have we cant live with cause my dad cant risk having to find a new job and its only my step uncle and he lives in a small place with his girlfriend… and the rest is on my moms side but no worries there they hate her too

chris. I’m. Sorry. your are so young and shouldent have to be worried by that. you need to help your dad. And be supportive and help out. I know your a great person and your my best friend and I wish I could help bit I don’t k ow how to I’m sooo. Sorrey

if I could, I would give you the $400 I’ve saved up for the the jonas brothers. but I wouldnt know how…and my mom would be pretty mad…

I do live with my dad we are loosing our house and it will be a cold day in hell before I go live with my mom in her 1 room aptment

woowww that’s worse than my life right now. hmm why not live with your dad??

sew.your.mom. & do you have family? like other family like an uncle or something you can live with?

um well for one live with your dad that solves the homeless situation and then you could get your license and get a job if need be you could cut peoples grass hell anything is better than nothing my friend

&&my familys like flat broke, I can’t even afford to buy lunch at school, I have to wait to get home for dinner or ask for money from somebody else.

hey my mum did that to my dad its not nice what so ever! theres not a awul lot you can do for your dad , I was in the same situation just let him know that you are there for him, and spend time with him when you can like mayby go out or something which trust me will take his mind of a lot of it! just be positive aorund him and I duno its hard really! just over all just be there for him as much as you can ok , but do think about what you feel at the moment as well, its hard when one of your parents have been cheating, and if you dont get what you feel out of you then you end up getting deppressed and if you end up like me your bottle it up and end up doing summing your regret! well hope I’ve helped anyways! xxx

Look, when I was 17 my mother cheated on my dad. It wasnt pretty, to make the situation worse, I had signed up for the ARMY already. This all hit at the worse time possible, and my father hit rock bottom. Seriously, it was not a walk in the park at all. My mother and father would toggle me back and forth and would be very child like, in the fact that they would argue over who would get to see me. It was horrible, and being the only child that made it worse. My father was devistated, and I was by his side as much as I possibly could be. These things are tough, but you just have to do whats best for you! Both of your parents will love you no matter who you pick to live with. Its not your fault all that happened. Frankly they should leave you out of it, but like I said do whats best for you.

okay heres my look on it for 10 years she did this and now we are loosing our house that I’ve been in my whole life I will have to leave all my friends to go live in a box because of that bit*h shes making my dad sell all the things I love and taking away our chance to have a nice life again and it was with my dads best friend for 10 years I cant and never will forgive her for ruining what was left of my childhood because I have to keep my dad moving and sister moving and you have no idea what its like to know 3 months before your parent found out and not have the heart to break theres in the last 2 years my life has gone to hell because of her she can leave it to me to fix it now

I’ve actually been in the situation your talking of from your Dads point of view. . . Stick with your dad thru thick and thin. Don’t hate your Mom, Hate only causes harm. hate her actions not her. Sometime we got to do hard things in our lifes and it’s not going to make us happy. Remember Hard times can make you or brake you. . . don’t get broken.

to put it in a nutshell… be there for your dad.

oh yeah & is your dad going to court? if he’s not, tell him too.