What should I do, my love life is messed up and I need advice?

I had a boyfriend,C, until a few days ago. I wanted to break up with him a few years ago. a different guy, A, I’ve liked him for longer than I was going out with the other one. A and I were best friends in the 6th grade until he started hanging out with what I thought was the wrong crowed, so we drifted apart. in 7th grade C asked me out I said yes, A, walked with us. I told A he was annoying and he told me, secretly, that he was just tring to be friends again. I really like A and I don’t know if he likes me back. I want to go out with A, but im wondering if that would be too weird. plus, A helped me break up with C. I fantisize about A way too much. How can I either tell him I like him or forget about him forever? I could never talk to C, and A is really smart funny cute and I wouldnt mind at all doing it wiith him, except that I dont want a baby.

Answer #1

hun, I’m in the same situation right now…I posted a question yesterday but nobody has answered it yet. I am starting to have major feelings for my best friend,M..and everyone thinks we are perfect for eachother..but I get mixed signals on if he actually likes me. so, I completely understand how you feel!

the last sentence in your description got to me. you said that you wouldn’t mind “doing it” with him, but you dont want a baby…thats what condoms are for! I think you should consider if all that he is after is the sex. but if you think that it could really work, then def talk to him and try and work things out. you also said that he helped you break up with C…well maybe he did that because thats his way of giving you a clue that he wants to be with you!!

hope this helps, and maybe you could help me with my question.

good luck!, B

Answer #2

aww dont think that way!! im sure you will be just fine :)

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