What should I do about this girl?

(sorry if this long)ok first here some of the history behide me and her.I known her for a over a year now. We dated like 5 times.now I just feel like I shoulda left her alone a long time ago. We just friends right now. I wasted so much time. Trying to be with her ect. Ect.. I mean seriously months of my life I probably wasted on her. If I woulda left her alone. Something great might had happen to me. But I wont know since I wasted my time. The other day we got in a argue. Like alway we fight. She act hmm she act like a kid sometime.(she 14 im 15 btw). Like come on grow up. She alway over react about something. Like ok I cheated on her before.yea I know it was wrong. At least I can admit it.like last time we was dating.I would try to be truthful about something. And boom she was just say some stupid things, like “ oh oh ok so you dont wanna be wit me no more”. Like what seriously when did them words come out of my mouth.this is the 1 problem of all them.then like she would be mad about something or sad. Me trying to be a good friend or boyfriend.try to figure out what wrong, or how I can help,like you know she never tell me. Or nothing. So how can I help if she wont tell me.I just want to tell her to go f* off. I can be the best person to peoples.as much as I want to tell her off. I cant there a part of me. That wont let me say it. Im close to the point where I just wont care no more.when I first met her. She was perfect. Everything I wanted. She had inside. I dont see where it fell apart off. But still I dont know if it time. To leave her alone.. Or what I just dont know what to do now. I was alway there for her. I try and try so many times. Oo I made a mistake who dont make mistakes.I dont what to do about her no more.any tips? Advice? Please thank.

Answer #1

You need to not see each other for a while, like a period of months to a year. If there is something there, you both will recognize what your problems are and either accept it and move on, or adapt and change to suit each-other. But this is most important: never regret any of it. I think that may be contributing to your problems. Life is a learning experience, all the way up to your death, so why worry about the time you’ve ‘’wasted’’ or the mistakes you’ve made. Try to use the mistakes and the hard times of your life to temper your future. Mistakes are good if you learn from them, and wheres the regret in that?

Answer #2

true. words of wisdom :D thank

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