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Boyfriend got me a cellphone but gave me lots of rules

I have a boyfriend that I have been with for awhile. And For my birthday he had boughten me a cell phone and I was soo excited like what girl wouldnt be right? But with this cell phone came with a lot of conditions and rules. I am only allowed to talk to him on the phone and no body else. And when he finds out that I have been talking to my friend on it he gets soo mad and starts yelling at me. I dont know what to do. Im afriad that if I try breaking up with him he will hurt me.

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Answer #1

It doesnt matter what he gives u…hes doing it so that he can keep you around and control u. He obviously has issues and insecurities. I’m sure you dont want to end up on the news as some victim so get smart and wake up. Get help and tell your parents or your friends and get out. Give the cell back. Explain this isnt working out and you need some time for urself. OH and do this in a public place. Like starbucks or some outdoor setting where people are eating and walking around. Dont be afraid. He doesnt love you and thats clear. Love isnt about setting boundaries. Lets b real…hes not going to change and hes set in his ways. He can only be w/a girl who is perhaps lacking in self-confidence and has issues at hm and calm, quiet, naive. you have to leave this relationship to save urself. When you give it back, have a friend of urs at another table around you where your boyfriend doesnt see. AT least you have a friend or 2 close by in case you need help. Finish this cause your too good for him anyway. you deserve better.

Answer #2

If you feel scared, then there is no reason to stay with that person. Breaking up with him is a good solution. As loulou11 said, have a phone with you so you can call the police if he does try to hurt you. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. Good luck. :)

Answer #3

Hey!!! You know he gave you a cell it’s your cell not his and you should give him the cell tell him he can have it tell him that your no longer happy with the relationship and he dosn’t treat you right and that if he continues to treat you like this you’ll leave him. Good luck ;) Kristyn

Answer #4

I agree with informer. You don’t want a guy like this in your life. If he tries to do something have a phone by you so you can call the cops right away. You don’t want to spend your life with him because you’re scared of breaking it.

Answer #5

I think you should break up with him, his idea of dominance isnt good for you and sooner or later he might get violent, if he does try to hurt you the police will sort him out. dont be a victim!

Answer #6

The last thing you said is the most important.

I think you know, then, that you’re only staying with him because you’re scared to leave. The cell phone is the tip of the iceberg, and you should return it and cool things down with him somehow. Get your parents involved and tell them what;s going on. You need to leave this person.

Answer #7

FUUUREAK!!! Break up with him. Now. Do it with people around. Get OUTTA there!

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