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How can I live with my boyfriend when my parents disagree?

Ok so I’m 16 and my boyfriend is 21. We started dating when I was 15 and he was 20 so we’re 5 years apart. We dated for 6 months and my mom and dad loved him to death until they found out his real age. Well my parents are seperated. my mom wount allow me to see him so I have been dating him behind her back for the past 5 months. my dad was okay with it. well I moved out of my moms house so I could be with him but my dad just let me live with him behind my moms back so I would get tired of him and break up with him, but the fact is it just made me love him even more. so I moved back in with my mom because of finantal reasons. I’m still dating him behind her back. She told me if she would allow us to date then she would go to jail along with him. but I don’t think they can. should I get divorced to my mom and dad and move out or take this to court I NEED HELP!!! please I live in ohio I need to know what to do!!!

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Answer #1

I think its wrong your dating him behind her back. and I cant believe you are only 16 and you moved in with him. I dont think you should break up and fight someone new because you love him, but you do need to talk to your mom and maybe wait till your 18 to see him again. maybe your mom will lwt him come over for dinner or a movie if she knows your just friends. she will respect you for respecting her wishes and that way once your 18 you can be with him and your mom will support you. but going behind her back is horrible. live with your mom for now and im not saying stay away from your boyfriend but maybe just slow things down with him. its better to have your mom love you and him and then hate you both. can you imagine never getting along with your mom cause of the person you date. I know 2 years is a while to wait but try to just stay friends with him or at least show your mom that. hope that helped and made sense

Answer #2

I know you love him but his really to old for you.I know you dont want to hear that but its true.you should be thinking about school and college,your to young to be having big relationship problems like this.when I was 16 I had a 22 year old boyfriend,and now that im 21 I can see a lot of the relatonship was sex.I dont know if your having sex or not but if this man really loves you he would tell you you need to work things out with your mom.and shes right if she does let you date him she could have legal problems.im no telling you what to do but I say take a step back and think,your just 15 you havent even began dating or living.if he loves you.I mean really loves you ask him to wait a while.you dont have to stop talking just chill out and let you get things right with your mom.if you do move away from her your going to have to pay bills!rent,food,clothes,and if you move in with him thats no better because yall have to answer to him,and what if you get pergnant?what would you do?you have to look out for that baby.just chill out you got your whole life to be with him.

Answer #3

you should follow your mom…because mothers knows best…you can still meet another person that is really meant for you…just wait for the right one to come along…

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