What should I do about being lead into hooking up with him?

So there’s this guy I kinda like and I think he really likes me too and weve hung out for a while and hes someone id probably consider dating but everytime we hang out he like leads me into hooking up with him and its not that I dont want to and its not that hes forcing me to but its just kinda awkward in some places and situations and I dont really know how to say I dont want to everytime or in that situation without making it awkward. Hes a really nice guy and I dont think he likes me just for being sexual and stuff but im starting to feel like I almost have to hook up with him everytime we hang out cause he leads me into it and even if I try to pull away it doesnt really work…any advice?? Thanks :)

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okay this has happened to me the last 3 guys. and my story was the same as yours. honestly im pretty sure he just thinks of you as a hookup and dont get to close to him this has happened to me a million times. I thought they all were hooking up with me cause they liked me no they just were using me. be careful fun mail me if you wann talk

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