What if my ex got a new girlfriend?

I dumped Jordan for Mike.. Jordan got a new girlfriend,and told me about her. And Im sitting here crying. I didnt think Id care,because Im happy wiht mike. I love him,I dontmiss Jordan. but when Jordan Told me,I started crying..

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Advice? Words of Wisdom? Anything?

Answer #1

anytime when you enter a relationship where you develop feelings for someone and then leave that relationship it’s going to have an effect on you whether you realize it or not. in essence, what he’s done is the same thing you’ve done. you left one guy for the other, and so the other guy moved on from you for another girl. it’s perfectly natural to feel sad over that, because it’s not good to think that it’s that easy to have someone you were with for a period of time move on so quickly and to put it in your face like he did.

the best thing you can do is move on yourself (which it sounds like you’ve done in part) and take comfort in the fact that you’ve found someone else that you can love and enjoy. remember, you don’t miss the other boy and keep telling yourself that. it might be a good idea to avoid contact with your ex-boyfriend for a period of time (if you’re planning on maintaining a friendship).

Answer #2

You see, when you dump a dude..expect him to get back at you. He’s obviously not going to sit around and wait for you. Think of it as you found your type and he found his!! =) You’re probably just unhappy he found another girl ..i doubt you’re jealous of her…you’re just mad because you didn’t expect him finding someone else.

Answer #3

wel im been through tht when i was goin out with ym bfand my ex gota gf i was soo uppset it was liek jelousy but just dont make it a bigger problem if yur happy with yur bf

Answer #4

if your ex has a girlfriend then dont care about it you arent with him because he was a problem so dont let him make more problems in your life

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