What is sexy on a medium complexed black girl

I think you answered your own question here. You say that you’re a little behind in terms of clothing trends. Your ethnicity doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter what colour you are, you can always be beautiful. I would recommend learning to be confident with your body. Communicate with your partner, because he is the only person who can tell you what he finds attractive. Never be afraid to show a little bit of skin or use a little bit of make-up, etc.

Just be yourself. Step beside your insecurities and for one day, be the person you want to be. Dress up, or maybe go to a clothing store and try on a few things for your partner. That is often a fun experience for couples who are curious about the thoughts of one another in terms of attractiveness. Talk to your partner and maybe one day experiment and wear something different. Analyse his body language and if he likes what he sees then this is the first step towards a more confident and beautiful you :)!