What. Help! I'm terrified of my mom!?

So when I was little my mom used to abuse me. Long story behind that. And my mom and dad fight constantly! I just sit in my room and cry when ever they do, but last night they got into a really big one. And now I cut when ever they do (please dont comment about this). But I have two friends that dont care who but want me to live with one of them, but I dont wanna leave because I have a 3 year old brother and I dont want him I have to live through what I did. So should I stay or leave? And if you saw leave; Why?

Answer #1

if you want to leave go to a nearest foster home or with a friend take your brother with you. buut please talk to yor mum explain what yo feel inside

tell me how yo got on x

Answer #2

yeah I know how the abuse goes I see it everyday with my mom and 6yr old sis, and she used to be the same way with me, which now shes getting better like not doing it anymore, and it was much harder for me then because of course I had like every family member living with me, and I could’nt do anything and this is when I was 10-12 seeing it happen to my sis the worse and it scared the fuck out of me, I was scared that maybe shhe would kill her one day, but now shes 6yrs old and a big brat but I love her to death and dont know what I would do if something happend to my sister, and knowing my mom almost killed her-self when my brother was 4 and I was 2 and she only stoped because of my brother because he went up to her and said mama, he always checked on her and she did’nt check on us, then like 9mothns before we found out that my mom was pregnant with my sister that she had an afection and she could have died because of it, if she did’nt get pregnant with my sister, so I understand your situation, I would say get intouch with a family member or take your brother out of it to and go to your friends house, I would’nt want that abuse for your brother, I’ve seen it and its scary. but its on you on what to decide, just do what you think is best for your life and your lil brothers.

Answer #3

Call Child Protective Services. You and your little brother will be safe. I also have a little brother. I love him more than anything. I’ll always put him first. He needs to get out of this situation as badly as you do! Foster parents also are nothing to be afraid of. They are checked out and have to pass extensive tests and have no criminal record. They’re good people who want to help and it sounds like you need some good people in your life.

Answer #4

move in with one of your friends, but take yor brother, get a job and I guess take on responsabitilties for him. that what I would do…and your friend and his or her parents can help out a little im sure…

Answer #5

If you’re being abused, call Child Protective Services. They will take both you and your brother out of the house and will keep the two of you together in a foster home that’s safe.

Answer #6

Do you have any other family in the area? Aunts, Uncles, Grand Parents? If so get in contact with them and let them know what is going on. You may be able to move in with them and get your parents they help that they need. Its not healthy to grow up in a household like that. Get Out but I’d suggest getting in touch with a family member before going the Child Services route. Your still young, you can’t be responsible for their actions and need to get in touch with an adult that can help.

Answer #7

If you’re being aboused, call Child Protective Services. Don’t wait.

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