what do you think...who does he care about more me or his girlfriend?

so I’ve known this guy for 3 years…we have been back and forth like…through all these years weve liked each other but we kinda stopped talking for a while because I found out he had a girlfriend and then he myspaced me and we started tallking again and I was like why didnt you tell me you had a girlfriend and he was like because I didnt wanna hurt you.(he recently got a girlfriend) but anyway…so we hung out and we kissed…the only reason we are not together is because I am still not allowed to date…but I truely love him…I don’t know if he does? or is he using me? I don’t know! help please.

Answer #1

I agree with gaia3. it sounds like he’s got quite the set up going! you’d be so much better off without that guy being around. besides, there really isn’t anything you can do when you both have reasons why you can’t be together.

Answer #2

If he has a girlfriend, and you cant date yet, thats convientient for him. Now I dont know him but this is how I see it : A. The boy gets a girlfriend B. The boy has a friend that he knows likes him, and he also knows she cant date C. This is perfect for boy because he can say “oh no we cant be together, I totally would if you were allowed” so he can kiss you without the commitment, while still keeping the girlfriend. D. He even pulled the “I didnt want to hurt you” card…a total B.S move that is not to be trusted

so from what I see, he is trying to use you. Find someone else to pay attention to and spend less time talking to him and let him just fade out of the picture

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