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What do you do when your friends fall in love with you?

Whenever I make a friend who is a guy everything is going good then they fall in love with me. This is the most annoying thing ever because I reject them , I don’t want a boyfriend. When I reject them they never want to talk to me ever again and the friendship is finished. This has happened 4 times and it’s getting really hard to deal with, I have lost so many good friends. The last time that has happened was today , and the guy was like “never talk to me ever again. Pretend like I have never existed and delete me from msn, faceboook and myspace. We will never speak again” and I try talking to him about it and he wont say anything. I would say “I am just not ready for a boyfriend now im so sorry” and he was just like “just delete me from everything”. And he would just keep saying that and it’s really annoying =. I just don’t understand why they have to be like that. I really want them to speak to me again , they have been good friends and I want me friends back. Please help. :|

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Answer #1

Guys get their feelings hurt when they feel rejected. You’re trying to make friends with boys…and they might be falling in love, or in lust with you… and when you tell them to chill…they show you the truth…they didn’t really want to be friends… They just were following their hormones and wanting to “get with” an attractive female who seemed interested.

Make friends with girls. Date guys, but make it clear it will be casual dating… and you aren’t in it to be used, and moved on from.

Answer #2

This happens because the guys are just trying to get some sex. This is how it always starts. They wanna be friends then they want to have sex with you. If you reject them then they don’t have a reason to talk to you anymore because they just wanted sex anyway. You must be young. This is how it is for a lot of men until they mature and set different values. You have to be careful. A good way to avoid this is always tell the guy that you still talk to your ex or something like that so they don’t get the wrong idea.

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