What do I do when my girlfriend tells me, we need to take a break?

The solution to your issue happens to be really simple…just give her what she wants which is space…this what about to say is the most vital rule you must not break…dont let her know how much her choice is hurting you!!! Just tell her that you love her and you would like for things between the two of you to work out but you respect how she feels…after you do that do not and I repeat do not make further contact…you have to make her see that you want her instead of need her like a new born puppy that still has not opened its eyes yet needs his mother…if you see her around try and make sure your looking your best…if your out and about with frends take pics and post them on a social site a social site…this will futher make her see you love and want her but you dont need her…if she calls you tell her your busy and that you will call her later…when you call her later make it short and dont let her get off the phone with you…you try and get off with her…try and keep it between 5 to 10 minutes…if she sends you a text…do not reply!!! If you choose to reply wait like a hour before you text her back…keep in mind that she is only making contact with you to see how your handling the situation she is putting you through also because she is missing the attention you once gave her…you might feel the urge to start telling her how much you love and miss her…do not I repeat do not do that!!! Talk to her as you would with one of your male frends… You dont have to be stone cold to her…just dont get all soft and mushy…you have to make her see that your a great guy and that she should feel honored to call her self your gurlfren…

TRY NOT TO BE THE ONE WHO MAKES CONTACT…LET HER CALL OR TEXT YOU INSTEAD…ITS A GOOD CHANCE SHE MIGHT START TO CALL YOU AND TEXT YOU TELLING YOU HOW SHE IS SORRY AND THAT SHE IS READY TO WORK THINGS OUT…EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT BE GLAD TO HEAR THAT…DONT GIVE IN TO EASY…SHE HAS TO WORK TO GET YOU BACK…ITS THE ONLY WAY SHE WILL TRULY APPRECIATE YOU…THE REASON FOR HER WANTING A BREAK COULD BE A NUMBER OF THINGS…WHEN A GUY FIRST GETS WITH A girl…HE IS USUALLY FUN COOL AND SPONTANEOUS…ONCE HE FALLS IN LOVE HE SOMETIMES GETS WEAK AND OVER MUSHY…a lot OF GURLS DONT LIKE THAT…IF YOU GET HER BACK YOU HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO SHOW HER YOU LOVE HER AND AT THE SAME TIME MAINTAIN YOUR MALE EDGE THAT GURLS LOVE…SHE MAY STILL LOVE YOU…YOU MIGHT HAVE JUST BECAME BORING TO HER…TRY DOING THE THINGS I MENTIONED…IF YOU NEED A COACH SEND ME A MESSAGE…THE REASON I AM SAYING THIS IS BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THROUGH WHAT you are GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW…AND I HAVE SEEN a lot OF MY FRENS GO THROUGH IT…GOODLUCK!!!

just give her time and she willl get back with you soon. shes probbly curious about how it feels to be wit out you. dont talk to her like a lot and you guys will be back together soon

Ok dont listen to smoky321, I know this is a tough time for you but if you truely love her you’ll set her free so she can come back. Its like she has given you everything she has and she doesnt know or dont have anymore to give, and by letting her have her own time, gives her the time to look for the person she once was and that was loving you, have faith in her, she’ll be back as she said so trust her and dont ignore her but show her because you love her so much your willing to support her.

Trust me, girls need some breathing time. Maybe you are spending too much time together or she has some other things on her schedule … she will come back! hope I helped ;D

okay, give her a bit of time. if she really does still feel the same way, then she’ll eventually come around. :) it’ll be okay. just relax, and try chilling with friends to distract you if you feel really depressed.

that just means it’s over and she doesn’y want anything to do with you ever,