What do I do about some snobs trying to get me in trouble?

long but pleasssee readdd…K well me and my boyfriend were at a basketball game. And it was almost over. I was leaning over on the bleachers because my stomach was hurting really bad and he was next to me asking wats wrong and im guessing it looked like we were kissing, and I got a text from one on my friends mom. It said “I dont think your mom would approve of what your doing” and we were only holding hands so I stopped. Then after a while her daughter said that her mom saw us making out? we didnt even kiss at all. And it turned out her moms friend took her moms phone and said that. My friends momm is rich and she is the biggest snob in the world and her friends only suck up to her for her money. So they are all trying to get me in trouble. Soo, its not their buisness if we were or not (which we werent because why would we kiss if there is a 100 people there?) and they are telling the whole community, everyone thinks im nice and now thats changing because my friends rich snob parents are spreading rumors about me thats not even true. Now all the community will hate me. Plus the adult who texted me that, their daughter was doing the same exact thing, holding hand wit someone, and she doesnt get yelled at because shes spoiled. And then she always calls my boyfriend to talk? If I called her boyfriend her mom would go off at me and she would cry to her friends?? Shes a backstabber and there was not one boyfriend I had that she did not try to steal, even when she was going out wit someone else! Im just really mad and what should I do bout this all?

Answer #1

okay so they just sound mean. try talking to your school guidance counseler or your mom or dad about whats going on. you have to learn to try to ignore people like that. or stick up for urself a little more. that will make them go away. eventaully.

Answer #2

stick upfor yourself hunni im always here for you x and just dint do anything you ont want to do they sound nasty andi eckon you are upsetandthings ant you welldont let them take overyou x

Answer #3

There is not that much you can do really. I think your best bet is to go to your mom yourself and talk to her and let her know you are feeling bad and like unfair rumours are being spread about you. Maybe she can help talk to your friend’s mom, and she will also appreciate you handling it in a mature way by talking to her.

To be honest, I do not think many people would be bothered even if they heard the rumour you kisse your boyfriend there. It is the kind of thing people forget quickly. Just remain dignified and show them all that you know how to handle yourself and are not the type to kiss in public and do anything that may reflect badly on you. Actions speak louder than words, so just ask like yourself an show them what you are really like :)

Answer #4

Stay calm if people are making fun of you about the rumors, and never simply say like “I never kissed my boyfriend!!” or something related to that just to defend yourself. People will not believe what you say. Since you know that these rumors with your boyfriend are not true, then your boyfriend should also know that they’re not true. Have you and your boyfriend confront her privately, and do NOT be harsh nor angry when confronting her because it will NOT help solve the situation. Tell her how you feel, and how it’s really giving you a bad reputation yourself. Know that she is really humiliating you with those rumors. But if else fails, then have your mom talk to your friend’s mom. Good luck!

Answer #5

Forget about all the friends, the snobs, the friends of snobs, etc etc etc…this will all be old news next week, and they will be on to something else, if you simply ignore it.

The one thing you need to do, tho…is give your mom a heads up, with what really happened at the ballgame, so she isn’t blind sided by an entirely fictional version of something that was innocent.

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Answer #6

that person is NOT your friend if she has tried to steal your boyfriend,well at least you know you she envies you cus you have something she wants.

I suggest that you talk to your mom about the whole situation so when tha news gets to her she already knows what happen from YOU not some snob rich broad tryna spread false information.. FIND NEW FRIENDS! backstabbers are no good! they only cause stress and pimples.lol

and tha so called parents need to mind their own,cause she is a hypocrite for judging you while her own daughter was doing tha same thing.

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