what can we do, keep it or?

As hard a decision as it is, you and your girlfriend are the only ones who are in charge of making it. Your parents can say whatever they want, but ultimately its your decision. Keep in mind, at seventeen your high school career should be nearly over and the whole situation may change after graduation. That being said, if you still feel as though you and your girlfriend will not be able to properly support a baby, put it up for adoption. After all, the choice of keeping the baby is to do what’s best for the child in the long run. With adoption there are many different options of how to approach an “agreement” between the birth parents and adoptive parents however you would like. I encourage you both to look into adoption as an alternative to abortion. There are waitlists of loving families that are waiting to give precious babies the best life they possibly can. If you are hesitating about keeping the baby because of the embarassment and shame of your parents finding out, I really do hope you understand that it was your choice to have sex and now isn’t the time to hide the fact that you do by hiding the ultimate consequence that everyone should be aware could happen if you are sexually active. good luck.

if you both want then go ahead you guys are the parents and if you have the money and the time then I dont c why its a problem… sure her parents might freak but its your relationship its her body she knows what she wants…like I said if you guys have the time n money then go ahead

all I can say is if your good enough to get her pregnant then your good enough to have the baby. because if you dont your killing an innocent baby!

I think you guys should tell your parents. they might be really mad and disappointed. but soooner or later they will love the baby. hey, everyone makes mistakes! and if you gvie the baby away you will regret that the rest of your life! talk to your parents about it.

tough dude!!! first I think yall should tell your parentss!! and then figure out if you can really take care of a baby! like whos gonna work,who will take care of the baby,provide,and have a happy life for your baby… you dont want to have any effects on family by havin a baby make sure you can really take on this challege!! you and your girl!! its a lot of work to take care of a baby.. and if you can then yeah keep the baby but if you cant and you dont think its right,,dont go for abortion!! go adpotion atleast and you can do adoption where you can still visit your chld if you wanna be there still.. you know?? (: but its not my or da people on heres decison its you and your girls because its your baby!! and your life!! (: so good luck (: best to you and your family

this is such a tough question. there are so many people against getting rid of a child and only so much responsibility put into raising and even developing a child.

if you two are completely against abortion then you could either put the baby up for adoption or keep it. but then either one of those automatically means that the parents must be aware of it. this is entirely your and your partner’s decision and no one, not even her parents can change that.

one thing I will say though is that if you see yourself with the same girl and having children together later on in the future. I don’t see how it would be that much a problem to keep this baby.