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Well, im single after a year..

Okay, I dated this girl, named Talya for about a year, 11 months actually. Throughout our entire relationship she had some really nice times where she was the most amazing girlfriend any human being could possibly want. And a lot of other times shes been a huge b*tch. Shes really unfair too, for instance, I’ve always been a really good boyfriend too her, maybe a bit @sshole-ish when she treats me bad, but I always tried to back off when she’d do something that was messed up. She would put pictures of Oliver Sykes and other people she would consider “hot” on her myspace and she would put conversations of herself and friends talking about hot guys and how when they went out last weekend they saw some dude with beautiful hair. And I’d always put stuff about her on myspace. Then one random day she asked me if I thought Pamela Anderson was hot, I was like, uhh yeah? and she gets mad at me and doesn’t talk to me normally for the rest of the night. Now that we’ve broken up I’ve tried getting back with her but she doesn’t want to because “I’ve changed”. What I personally see is that my family from Texas has come down to visit and has been living in the same house as me, and they have to kids(4 years old and an 11 month old) that I kind of got to help take care of, so I haven’t been able to talk to her as much. Now, theres this girl Karol that I have just recently gotten into and she really wants to hook up, and even have sex. And I’m not in love with her, but I’m worried I’ll hurt myself for still loving Talya and doing this? Even though I doubt me and her will ever get back together?

Please help

Im 14 too btw..

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Answer #1

but I’ve already apologized to her… and she just doesn’t see that. A lot of her friends are my friends too and they know exactly what shes done to me and they;ve told her shes being a pretty big b*tch. She can change but I dont know how to make her change.

I feel like shes the dominant one in the relationship and all my guy friends tell me im puzsy whipped.

Answer #2

You cant make someone to be your girlfriend neither can you make them change if they´re not willing to. Sorry, but I think she just isn´t the girl for you. If she really wanted to have a relationship with you, she would at least try a little and see the situation from your point of you..

And about your friends.. well, they´re just being jerks

Answer #3

Just take a break for a while. Soon your “love” with Talya will faid and that new girl will probably take the place. If you’re really not ready for a relationship with that other girl, just be friends and get to know eachother a little more. If you’re not ready to have sex with her, then don’t. I’m 14 as well and my boyfriend wants to have sex and I told him I wasn’t ready, he completely understood. I don’t know about that other girl, but she’ll probably understand.

Talya sounds like the jealous type. She’s probably also trying to make you jealous. I do highly agree that Oliver Sykes is very “hot”. But like she’s ever going to get a chance with him. Just don’t worry about it. She shouldn’t get mad that you think a famous chick is hot because you’re never going to get her. I’m sorry but she just doesn’t sound right for you if she really treats you like sh*t most of the time.

Answer #4

wow sounds complicated.

well I personally wouldnt hook up with the other person if you dont care about her. I would find that disrespectful to her feelings, karol’s.

sounds like you just need to point out that talya is being kind of a hypocrite. if she cant see that, then she doesnt sound very mature or willing to accept that she will be wrong sometimes. but first be a man and apologize for being a jerk first…that will get her off the defensive. This shows that you are willing to admit when you are wrong too.

spats are normal..even if they are about stupid things…

Answer #5

Thanks a lot to both of you. Means a lot.

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