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Turning my boyfriend on, is a struggle.. Help!

I dont think my boyfriend finds me very sexy. We’ve been dating for two years now, and its getting harder to turn him on.[ im only seventeen so please dont tell me to buy sex lotion, or candles and stuff.] when we do have sex, he usually jumps right into it without fourplay. I’m not even sure if he’s horny when he’s doing it or not. Or if he’s doing it just because I said something about it. If you have a boyfriend, how do you turn him on? Or what do you do to him or say? I would wear something sexy, like showing clevage, [ect..] but, his friends are always over at his house and I dont want to look like that around them. Only around him. And I really cant get his attention when I do show my boobs off. He never looks, or dont say anything. It upsets me beccause its like he doesn’t notice me. Annny advice would be helpful. Thank you so much :)

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Answer #1

Melissa is right. You gotta talk to him first. Ask him what really turns him on. He’ll be happy that youre interested in making it come true.

When I wanna turn my man on I put on something sexy, sit him down in a chair, pick some hot music, then dance for him. I usually only make it through one song before he wants it bad, but thats because I also dance ON him about halfway through the song. Hope that helps!

Answer #2

well you need to talkto him. thats the number one thing, you need to talk to him about, maybe he doesnt understand what you want. I talk to my boyfriend on the phone and tell him what I want haha. but if your boyfriend is still young like your age…he probably dont understand yet.

but you can try wearing sexy clothes, when you are in private…I mean you should ask if you can spend time wit him alone with out his friends you know…if you have a cell you can take him like sexy pics, naked or showing something you know, and send it to him(if you trust him and you know he wont send it to anyone)…maybe you can watcha porn with him and like imitate it hahaif you feel comfortable…ummm yeah those are some ideas I guess

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