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Am I ready to move on from my cheating ex? (continued)

I’m so greatful for your advice. I’ve been wandering about therapy for a while, however, I thought I’d be able to cope. Well, I thought I’d moved on quite well up until 3 months ago.

He’s still trying to get in touch with me, passing messages via an old friend. I’ve told both parties to stop getting in touch with me, as its doing me NO good at all.

How about the Australia move? Or is that too drastic?

Again, many thanks x

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Answer #1

I don’t know if “drastic” would be the right word - although moving to the other side of the world to get away from your ex could be considered drastic lol :-) - I think its just something you have to think long and hard about.

A move like that is a lot to deal with and having to deal with the stress of doing it on top of getting over this problem in your life may be a bit much to ask of yourself.

I think that whilst you take a bit of time to look after yourself, you’ll be better prepared to make such a life-changing decision. Maybe book yourself a bit of a holiday, if time and funds will permit and spend a few weeks out there in an area you would like to live, get a really good feel for the place as an “average person” rather than a backpacker or traveller etc.

No matter what you decide, just make sure you follow what feels best for you. Don’t let anyone pressure you into anything you don’t want and I think you’re right to ask friends to stop passing messages from your ex. If people don’t want to listen, be firm, tell them you will be forced to break your friendship with them if they won’t repsect your wishes.

HTH.

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