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Started with Marriage Problems, Cheated, continued affair.

My husband and I started having marriage problems for a few months. No sex, no nothing, I was giving and never getting satisfied. I was not to go out, and finally decided to have friends. I went dancing and started dancing with this guy, at first it was just dancing but then something happened where we just clicked it was an unexplainable feeling. We started talking and found out we had so many things in common, aside the fact that he is an intellect and we just hit it off. We kissed, things happened, and now it’s been going on for three months. I had wanted a divorce before this guy and I started going out; my husband is a sweet man but sometimes he can be a complete ass, and those good days make me want to stay but there are days I want to leave. This new guy treats me so great aside the fact we have great chemistry and we have set goals. Should I get my divorce and try to see what happens with the new guy? Or should I let the new guy go and try to make my marriage work again?

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Well since you’ve already gone off and cheated on your husband he might just divorce you if you tell him about it. I hate cheaters and I hate women that leave men for another guy. If you want to leave your husband, leave your husband for the man he is not because of the man next to him. If you don’t want to be with your husband that’s fine but to compare your husband with another guy is not logically correct because there’s too many factors that will play out to say where this new guy will act like whenever he’s been married to you for as long as your husband has. You need a wake-up call and need to quit fooling around and TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT EVERYTHING!

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