Someone I care about has changed and it hurts

I have a guy best friend and we have a very close friendship, but over the past few months he has finally made some mates who are guys (he has only ever been friends with girls). He spends all of his time with them and I hardly see him anymore and I know that I am loosing him. He has a new best guy friend who he is constantly with, but at the moment he has told me that his new mate has been avoiding him. My mate then told me something which shocked me. He told me that he thinks he has started to have feelings for boys, and inparticular that new guy mate that he made friends with. He told me that he has told noone else about this, so I know that he trusts me. He also told me that he still thinks that he likes girls aswell. I told him that I would still be there for him no matter who he likes.

However nowerdays he keeps avoiding me and its hurting me inside. Especially when, I admit, that I do have feelings for him that is more than friends. I feel like he has changed in some way and that I don’t know him anymore. I assume it’s because he’s kind of confused, but he doesn’t know that it’s also hard for me to never see him and keep his secret.

I really don’t know what to do! I hope someone can help.

Answer #1

awww…a friend, whos a girl, is a bit like that…except she didn’t become attracted to girls - just faded away from boy company.

it hurts, but I kept in indirect contact with her - texting and im. It turned out to be a phase - she’s suddenly found some interesting friends and spent more time with them until they became more boring - now me and mi friends hang out with her agen.

dunno if your boyfriends like dis - but it’s the best advice I can give..

good luck :)

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Psychic Source

Psychic Readings, Love Advice, Relationship Guidance

Advisor

BestAsianBrides

Dating Services, Matrimonial Services, Online Matchmaking

Advisor

Get Over a Breakup

Relationships, Self-help, Personal development

Advisor

Winnipeg Couples Clinic

Marriage Counselling, Relationship Therapy, Couples Therapy

Advisor

BestAsianBrides

Dating Services, International Marriage Agencies, Online Matchmaking