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Um so I think I might of messed things up. So my x and I broke up since she was like in love with another guy. So ok this sucks but w/e. Then my friend who I went out with once found out and told me she wanted 2 b with me. K. But she had 2 break up wit her boyfriend first. K so I waited and waited and waited. So just so you no when we went out she cheated on me!!! Anyway, so I guess she dumped her boyfriend. But it was wierd cause he told me they were still going out. But she( my x) told me they were done. So umm ok? K we had our final 8th grade dance. My x couldnt go! So I asked this girl who I’ve liked 4 like a year 2 the dance. Well this girl has never had a boyfriend and I don’t know why… So if I want I can go out with her or with my x right? My x like told me 2 go to the dance with amber if I wanted… But then she got mad at me cause I had a great time with amber. So yesterday she told me to f off. 2day I talked to her and things are ok. But now im left in a bad position. Amber likes me, and izz like me. And this other girl likes me. So izz was a great girlfriend when we were together, she wasnt afraid to like hold hands or kiss or anything like that. But she did cheat. Amber has never had a boyfriend even though shes an amazing girl, but im afraid she wont be a good girlfriend cause shes never had a boyfriend. I don’t think shell like hold hands or hug or talk on the phone, or go 2 the movies or anything a boyfriend and a girlfriend do… So I dont no what to do and like im just like all confused. So 2 make things worse my original x who loved the other guy is now talkin 2 me bout her loving me again. So theres that. And my friend ashley likes me and I think I like her back. It just so hard!!! I don’t know what 2 do!!! Who 2 date. And who really likes me. Thanx for reading this I know its hard

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I think that you shud forget yur friend who cheated on you. she cheated once, who says that she wont do it again, she told you that she loved someone else, maybe she still does. if she dumped you for somebody else and then dumped another person for u, she may keep searching for a better guy and dumping all of the rejects(no offense).

just a fact: just cause a girl has never had a boyfriend, it does’nt mean that she wont b intersted in hanging out and being all romantic and boyfriendy-girlfriendy. I’ve never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy and I have this crush who I am crazy about. I wouldn’t mind acting like that with him. I wud probably b a little nervous about if I was a good girlfriend, if he was my first, but once I got some positive feedback from him, I wouldn’t hesitate to show my feelings (ex:hugging, kissing, holding hands, dates, etc.) most girls that have never kissed a guy or been with one will want someone more than an experienced one (they will be more anxious to kiss and stuff, lol). you said that she likes you and that she is inexperienced cause she never had a boyfriend. I thought that guys like girls who have never done anything so that they can experience it together. you can teach her how 2 kiss, it wud b so romantic. Practice makes perfect. think of it this way: she is fresh, you dont have 2 worry about diseases or her being a tramp or slut.

this last girl that you think that you like, it is probably not as strong a crush as for Amber. think about how you feel when you are around Amber then think of how you feel with Ashley. be careful. if Ashley doesn’t like you and you decide 2 tell her that you like her, Amber will think that you just wanted her for a good time and was leading her on. if Ashley doesn’t like u, you will lose both girls. if she does like u, but you realize too late that you dont like her as much as you thought you did or as much as Amber, and you break up with her, she will think that you were just lying about liking her or went out with her on a dare.

in the end the decision will be yours but make sure that you will be happy with whoever you pick because if you change yur mind, you will end up with none of these girls.in my opinion, you shud choose Amber cause you can teach her (with actions wink) about being in a relationship, you liked her longer than Ashley, and yur “friend” and former girlfriend cheated on you with someone else. I wouldn’t even think of her as an option.

I hope that you are happy with the choice you make, good luck, hope this helped!=D

Answer #2

I think that you are so young that it is the perfect chance to date around and quit worring about how good a girlfriend is going to be just becuase of the simple fact shes never had a boyfriend. if you like her…give her a chance. nothing is set in stone. its not like you sign a certificate when you dae someone. why date just one girl? date around… don’t commit to just one. you are too young. I don’t mean go kissing on everyone and getting all sexual with everyone I mean learn about different girls…what does she like? what does she do? what are her interests? etc… get to know a bunch of people. when you get older then start thinking more around being so selective about who you date..thats when its going to matter. Besides you can’t fall in love with one person one day and turn around break up with them start a new relationship with someone elas and then cry over the person you broke up with!! you are not in love!! how many times do I have to say this to kids!!! our hormones are all over the place at this age and you will feel lots of different things but not love until you have been with someone for a while. good luck chuck…just build your friendship base right now…start with that…then who knows…best friends are sometimes better than girlfriends. wait until college to get serious.

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