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so complicated! need help.

I’ve had a boyfriend for the past 9 months. and im not going to lie, this isn’t perfect. there are many ways that he could treat me better. recently I’ve kind of given up trying to give him a hint of how I believe I deserve to be treated. 1st question is - am I just being greedy? do I just think that I do a lot of stuff for him? or is it him?

so this is when it gets mega complicated… a manager from work, who I am very close with, though practically 5 years younger than, has just told me he likes me. I’ve heard that age doesnt matter, but will it be if we are in completely different positions at work? he’s perfect, we talk nonstop and he has always been willing to do whatever for me, hes so nice to everyone. I don’t think I deserve that, but I also think I deserve better than what I have.

what should I do?

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Answer #1

im not sure how bad it is with your boyfriend. I think you should straight up talk to him about it, in a relationship it goes both ways. As for this guy at work well…have you ever heard “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” ? sounds to me like your kinda sittin on the fence. ya cant have both ya know…so if you look at it that way that might make things a little easier for you. But what do I know women just cant make up their minds! lol. good luck

Answer #2

The boyfriend thing is something I just went through. I would see all these people around me being treated like princesses while my boyfriend wasn’t even there for me. We’ve been dating for 10 months so I started to get upset. When he came over last night we layed next to eachother and just talked for an hour. It turns out that he wasn’t treating me that well because he didn’t want people staring at us lol but as for the boss thing , I don’t know if you should do anything. Talk to your boyfriend first cause if anything happens with your boss, it could be your jon on the line too

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