Should I talk to my ex-girlfriend?

It’s over. Deep down in your heart you know it, but many people hope against hope that if they go back just one more time, things will work out. So…they go back and try. 99% of the time it’s the same sad outcome, minus a couple of precious months that would have been better spent in trying to heal themselves.

Don’t try to be friends. Don’t meet for dinner to see them one more time. Don’t talk on the phone and rehash the past and don’t let them continue to be a part of your life when they’re not.

It’s difficult to make the break, but be strong and keep your distance. It will make it easier on you in the long run. Instead, if you choose to keep in touch; you will only prolong the process. You will have to go through it anyway, so why put it off and make it harder on yourself?

All of our choices come with consequences. When you choose to see her one more time or talk to her again and again, the consequence is: you will begin to heal later rather than sooner. You will waste more of your precious time and you will hold onto the hope that things might work out, which will only be a disappointment to you in the long run.

Making a clean break and acceptance go hand in hand. The “clean break” is evidence that you’ve “accepted” that it’s over and you are ready to move on with your life.

The word “past” means that something is no more. It is no longer in existence. It is healthier to get out of the past, to get ready for the future you want and choose.

I’ve been there, and the best thing you can do for yourself, is take the right steps to heal your broken heart and…You will survive!

I wouldn’t bother with that chick anymore. Just move on, let her move on. You’re just messing with your head which will just bring more pain and the same result. You’re only 18, just learn from your mistakes and be wise as you continue to date. The girl above that left the first comment will just mess things up. Typical girl reply. This isn’t a game of “who will come back first”. I dated a girl for 3 years; it went extremely deep and connected for us. Which made it very difficult to let each other go towards the remaining two years. As you discover things about her, you’ll either work with each other or against each other. Avoid the typical immature bs. If you listen to this first comment posted, you’re just kidding yourself. Wake up, look for a girl that’ll work with you and not just make your life a living hell. Set your standards, but don’t become cold hearted; you want to learn from mistakes made in a positive way, not negative. Good luck.

I agree with Chrisnj73 Dont waste your time just move on.