Should I stop dating?

Just to follow on from the previous responses and putting what meganhead said in a slighly different way, ,

How can you expect others to like you when it sounds that you don’t even like yourself at the moment?

What I mean when I say this is that women will sense how you feel about yourself from your body language, what you say to them and how you say it.

Do you have a friend who is a girl that you can talk to and ask them to be totally honest to you?

If so, ask her, as a girl what she feels are your good and not so good points. Dont get into an arguement about it just listen and make notes.

Just quickly polish up your good points and believe in them. Look at your not so good points and see how you can work on them to improve them.

You are not going to tick all the boxes for every woman but it can only help by addressing some of your weaker aspects.

You also need to look at ways of boosting your self confidence and maybe self esteem. (Unless of course one of your weaker points is over confidence)

Don’t expect women to make it really, really obvious that they like you. Look for the subtle signals that they may want you to start a conversation with them.

What some women want is a guy that has confidence. A guy that can see them, want to start a conversation and in that moment, be able to walk over and actually start an interaction with them.

You really cant bracket anyone but some women looking for a guy may want you to be able to interact with them in a way that:

Builds their interest Is funny and interesting Includes flirting Creates sexual tension

You say you are looking for a woman who has a similar personality to yourself. To find that out you need to get to know a woman first. Also, there is some truth in the old saying that ‘opposites attract.’

It is natural that your previous experiences with women would hurt and nock you back pretty hard but many people, guys and girls, go through this.

Dont look at these as problems but as opportunities to improve yourself.

:)