Should I get back with her

My girlfriend broke up with me cause she doesn’t feel a spark… So she came up with this “plan” that she goes out with another guy and she if they have more of a spark then me and her did and if she doesn’t she wants to get back together should I?

Answer #1

uh no? because of corse shes guna have a spark with the other guy I mean, its not you..but its a new guy…u always have a spark wtih a new guy I dont think that is fair to you so for get her man :) sorry I know that can be hard to do tho..but I dont think you should give her another chance OR make a spark :) do things for her and just please her and every way possiable :)

Answer #2

That’s dumb. No. When there’s no ‘spark’ in a relationship, you don’t give up. You try your absolute best to make things work out. And after you’ve tried, if things still haven’t gotten better, that’s when you decide to break things off. She’s obviously not willing to try, so don’t bother.Sounds like a waste of time.

Answer #3

You said you are desperate - well, girls pick up on that and its a big turn off! When guys are too available, we arent as drawn to them usually. It sounds like she knows you will be there waiting for her regardless of how many guys she tries to ‘spark’ with. If you play the cool guy role and DO NOT sit around and wait for this girl to come back around- she may be intrigued. Honestly- this could be way off (just my opinion)- I would stop talking to her all together so she wonders what is going on- blow her off to show her you are not desperate and she will want to know whats up- other girls will catch on too. but stop acting desperate! good luck!

Answer #4

uh no? because of corse shes guna have a spark with the other guy I mean, its not you..but its a new guy…u always have a spark wtih a new guy I dont think that is fair to you so for get her man :) sorry I know that can be hard to do tho..but I dont think you should give her another chance OR make a spark :) do things for her and just please her and every way possiable :) you dont ahve to buy her nething just make her feel like she is the lukiest girl in the world to be wth u just spend time and put her on a pedisole :)

Answer #5

So make sparks happen. Do anything you can to make her feel like she’s the luckiest girl alive to have you. It doesn’t sound easy but it is. Girls don’t need all that fancy stuff from our boyfriends to make us happy with them. We fall fast, guys just don’t realize it. It won’t take a lot for her to feel that way for you, you just need to show her that she means everything to you and there is no one else out there you’d rather be with. Once you prove that to her, then she shouldn’t want to leave. If she still does, she wasn’t worth it.

There’s so many girls out there. I highly doubt no one likes you, but even if that’s the case… that doesn’t mean there’s not another girl out there for you. She’ll come around. Promise.

Answer #6

HOW!

Answer #7

ya but shes like the first serious girlfriend I’ve had and plus noone else likes me at all …ya I guess im desperate

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