How bad does sex hurt and can I take a pill to prevent pregnancy?

im still a virgin and me and my boyfriend are ready to take the next step. yes SEX! im ready but im scared lol please answer these questions!

1 ) im tight how badly is it gunna hurt =(

  1. wats the best kind of condoms to use?

  2. what if something goes wrong and the condom breaks, im under age so thers no way I can tell my parents! what would I do?

  3. is ther a pill or something I can take to pervent me from getting pregnant?

  4. hes still a virgin too I cant get any diseases or anything right?

  5. if I do get pregnant what do I do!?

PLEASEEE ANSWER THESE FOR ME! ahahaha =)

Answer #1

it all depends on the you to know if it hurts, every girl is different. I dont know what the best condoms are but if it breaks your going to have to get another one or reschedule till you get another one. There is a pill but its not over the counter, you have to get a prescription. Which means telling your mom (which by me I think would be ok) if your older than 16 shell understand if not its out of the question. If he has a disease in his system that he didnt get from doing it but from touching someones blood in anyway and it got into him maybe (but this is probably not a every single time kinda case) youll be fine. If oyu get pregnant I would tell your parents as soon as you find out.If you do there are three options 1). Keep the baby and give birth and keep it 2). give birth and give it up for adoption 3). get an abortion (really bad idea youll feel guilty its kinda like killing someone) hope my tips helped

Answer #2

If you are scared then you ARE NOT READY. Simple as that.

But, here are your answers.

1 ) im tight how badly is it gunna hurt =(

  • Generally speaking most people are before their first time. Just use lots of lube, and if you actually ARE ready and your body tells you so, then it shouldn’t be so bad.
  1. wats the best kind of condoms to use?
  • I believe Trojans. No matter how good the condom though, keep in mind that they DO BREAK. Have back-up protection.
  1. what if something goes wrong and the condom breaks, im under age so thers no way I can tell my parents! wat would I do?

Pray you don’t get pregnant.

  1. is ther a pill or something I can take to pervent me from getting pregnant?
  • Birth control pill. But it takes several months until it starts to become fully effective.
  1. hes still a virgin too I cant get any diseases or anything right?
  • Wrong.
  1. if I do get pregnant wat do I do!?
  • Depends on your beliefs. If you are against abortion, give the baby up for adoption. NEITHER one of these will be easy for you to do.

Good luck and please make the right decision. Wait til you’re older.

Answer #3

im still a virgin n me and my boyfriend are ready to take the next step. yes SEX! im ready but im scared lol please answer these questions!

1 ) im tight how badly is it gunna hurt =( Alright, how do you know you’re tight unless you’ve done som foreplay… Another thing, for me, my first time didn’t hurt, then again I fell off my bike, rode a horse, etc and I didn’t have a hymen. It may or may not hurt, but that’s only the first time.

  1. wats the best kind of condoms to use? The ones that fit him perfectly and are NOT tight on him. Get a bunch of different sized condoms, try it on him, ask him if it hurts.

  2. what if something goes wrong and the condom breaks, im under age so thers no way I can tell my parents! what would I do? First, talk to your trusted parent, tell them you are ready to take your relationship to the next step, that way if ANYTHING does happen you can talk to them about it and they can do something for you. I have talked to my parents about it myself. I trust my mom and I know she won’t abandon me if I were to tell her I am having sex.

  3. is ther a pill or something I can take to pervent me from getting pregnant? I do believe there is birth-control and there is also the day after pill. STILL TALK TO A PARENT!! That is the only way to get on birth-control in most states is to allow your parents you are thinking about it and since, more then likely they don’t want their little girl to get pregnant they will help find ways to make sure you don’t.

  4. hes still a virgin too I cant get any diseases or anything right? Hey may or may not be lieing about being a virgin. Schedule an appointment to go see a specialist to see if either one of you have an STD.

  5. if I do get pregnant what do I do!? It all depends on if you want to raise it or not. There are many options. Personally I would keep the child and raise it no matter what happens, sometimes though that is not an option. Depending on how old you are you may or may not be able to raise the child on your own. If you are 16 or older I would suggest that if you give birth to the child that you ask your parents to help raising the child while you go to school and get yourself a job. If you are younger then 16 ask them to watch the child while you go to school. When you turn 16 get a job, pay your parents to watch the child while you go to school and work. Unfortunately, getting pregnant takes away your freedom.

PLEASEEE ANSWER THESE FOR ME! ahahaha =)

Answer #4

I had gotten fingered about five or six times before I had sex, which isn’t a LOT but it’s definitley not a little. I bled enough to look like I had had my period, and on a scale of one to ten, it hurt about a 6, for about 10 minutes but after that it felt good. However, this may not be your case.

Answer #5

As captainassassin stated, why are you asking about taking the next step in your relationship when you, and your boyfriend have already tried sex? You both are NO longer virgins anymore just so you know. So i guess all your questions are irrelevant.

Answer #6

OMG YOU STUPID LITTLE B* YOU ARENT 6 MONTHS PREGNANT! YOUR OTHER POSTING TITLED “HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS IM 14 AND 6 MONTHS PREGNANT” WAS POSTED 8 MONTHS AGO AND THIS ONE ONLY 4 MONTHS AGO, DUDE WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?! YOU EITHER NEED TO GET SERIOUS OR GET OFF THE SITE!

Answer #7

I would say wait to have sex because im 14 years old and I started having sex at 13 years old and when I turned 14 I just couldnt stop having sex and like 5 months ago I got pregnant and now I have to change my life for a new baby which im due February 19th.

Answer #8

I think you should wait t!sex is no game, but no body knows when your really ready but you, But honesty i think you should wait, until you really found the one you wont to spend the rest of your life with, I mean what if you get pregnant if your not ready then who’s the one that has to suffer the baby i, think if your 13 i’m just guessing at your age. but just say what will happen! but if your really ready to have sex the most mature thing you could do is to ask your dr. or go to the health dept. and ask for birth control. make sure that your partner or you are tested for sexual transmitted dieases and wear a condom for extra protection!

Answer #9

Okay, if you’re that scared, then you’re NOT ready. I mean, everyone is scared their first time I guess. But if you honestly have to ask all of those questions about sex, then you don’t know enough about sex to have sex.just wait until you’re older or married. It’s what i’m going to do. And what my friend is going to do. You’ll probably regret it if you have sex at this stage in your life. Your too young.

Answer #10

Well, according to your LAST question, you’ve already had unprotected sex. So these questions came a little late…

Answer #11

hahaha… you had sex… but your still a virgin?… GREEEAAATTT

Answer #12

hey how old are u just wondering? lol ohh and whatever u do dont uses durexx. breaks relly easyy and and girl pshh it hurts liek a beeper. lol not to be mean or anything lol but yeaa ohh and after u have the s e xx then just take plan b

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