Why can't guys get past girls' looks?

I don’t beleive it when people tell me that if you don’t love urself how can anyone else love u. If your beautiful you can have very low self esteem but guys will still like u. But unfortunately, guys base decisions on the physical attriibutes.Why do guys always compare me to other girls that look better than me? I”m not a bad person I’m just ugly.. They can’t get past that? It hurts. Right now it hurts to sill be living because I just want to die. I’m tired of never being good enough. I just want someone to care enough that they would treat me like I want to be treated but no one cares. I don’t want to live anymore but God is taking to long to kill me. I hate myself.

Answer #1

babe dont you EVER tell yourself that. I look at your pictures and you are so beautiful. what dont you like about yousefl?! dont tell me everything. im sure you look in the mirror and there is something. dont hang around guys that make you feel that way. dont be easy. dont do things guys want. Be yourself. you know what the problem is? guys of anything, love and strive for a girl with confidence. you wouldnt want to be around a girl that always complains and is low and doesnt smile. You cant look at yourself in the mirror and hate yourself. Try to better yourself. I do this.. I take a pen.. and paper, and i write a list of what i DO like. you must have something.. nice eyes, you have gorgeous lips! i love them. a nice bum or body. then you write what you DONT like. and right beside them. write how you could change it. You live one life. If you treat yourself poorly others dont want to be around someone who will put them down in a bad mood. dont complain to others, or yourself. better yourself. in my eyes you are a really pretty woman and i dont get how you want to die. Screw guys right now. ur making it seem like your life is pointless without them. You need to change that. Everytime u look at yourself tell yourself one thing you like. you amy not be happy but when your around people you have to smile laugh and show your powerful natural beauty. youl glow. trust me. :) if you want il help you out with this. Ive had friends that went through this.. i went through this. but you cant change everything about yourself and if you feel good others will feel good and want to be around you. Love yourself before you can love someone else. :) kay! please talk to me :D i like you and want to be e friends:)

Answer #2

as for girls that are “prettier than you “ how you said.. EVERY girl has flaws. but becasue they are confident.. they cover up there flaws and people see them as beautiful. So really you have to love yourself for others to love you. how u treat yourself is how others will treat you.

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