Ruined reputation.

My reputation is completely ruined, this guy that I liked we were together one day and it got kind of sexual, although I did not go all the way with him (ex: intercourse) but now he’s telling people we did have sex. I have a good girl reputation, I’m an honor student, and am involved in a lot of extra curricular activities a rumor like this will ruin me. What should I do?

Answer #1

im 20 years old and I been there. well the thing with me I didn’t really care what people think of me or what they said about me. that I was in high school but even now I still don’t care what people think of me. if they think im a slut well so be it. in fact I know its not true so that all dosen’t matter. so you should care what they say or do. just for get about it.

Answer #2

Ignore it,go up to him and ask him why he’s doing that. I fyou know it isn’t true you don’t have a thing to worry about,just act like it’s not happening,as long as it doesn’t affect your education,it won’t harm you.

Answer #3

okay well to me people can say whatever they want to say if it’s not true you shouldn’t have to worry.. you know what why ou did and what you didn’t do, and if someone was to ask you if the rumor was true just tell the the truth.

Answer #4

anyone that you hear talking about it. you need 2 tell them that its not true and that they need to please stop talking about it. just say something like. im a good girl do you think that I would do something like that

Answer #5

If people start to make fun of you, they know it’s not true. trust me, everyone worries about their rep. wheter they show it or not. (Most times they don’t)

Answer #6

answere the truth calmly that way people have a better chance in believing you answere like you dont care, if you start snapping and crying people will believe it to be true

Answer #7

Trust me, the rumor will fade. I remember in high school rumors like that would happen till someone else did it then the spotlight would be on that person, people will forget about it and stop talking about it.

Answer #8

omg x I had such a bad reputatiobn in high school and I only slept with one person :) just forget about it

Answer #9

punch them all in the face.. and whats so bad about being a bad girl.. lol.. good luck in future thoo…

Answer #10

Thanks everyone! I’ll give it a try :)

Answer #11

Just ignore it and when someone asks you if its true tell them the truth.

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