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Ok so lately I’ve been feeling indifferent towards my boyfriend and I’m not for sure if I want to be with him. Don’t get me wrong he’s one of the most sweet and nice guys I’ve ever dated ,but I’m still having second thoughts on if I want to be with him.

Also he’s asking questions like, Are you still into us? Do you think WE will workout and I have no clue on how to respond to that ,because I don’t know if he still thinks that he wants to be with me or not ,and also I don’t know what I want.

One other thing is we never had any time this summer to see eachother ,because I’ve been busy with things. And we won’t get to see eachother till School starts.

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Answer #1

Ichinibarky that wasn’t good advice no offence… Right mine not be any better here but if he is asking will WE work out, he wants to know he isn’t wasting his time on someone he really likes who may not feel the same back. When a guy/girl is great you need to see them more, but because your not seeing him your feelings are like well…how they are now “indifferent”. Its not bad how you feel, infact your feelings aren’t even bad towards him am guessing if you seen him you would be straight back to normal. So the question is are you willing to give it the time to see if thats the case, because if it isn’t you’s could mutually break up when you’s meet at school and continue being friends :) Good luck!

Answer #2

I THINK YOUR FEELINGS ARE DRIFFTING APART BECAUSE YOU HAVEN’T SPENT TIME WITH HIM. OR THERE MAYBE SOMETHING ABOUT HIM THAT SEEM TO BUG YOU. I THINK YOU NEED TO SEE HIM AT LEAST ONCE THIS SUMMER AND YOUR FEELINGS MIGHT COME BACK.

Answer #3

If the relationship doesn’t make you happy and you’re having doubts, then it’s pretty much over.

Just because he’s a great guy doesn’t mean it’s meant to be.

Do yourselves a favour - stop lying to yourselves and move on.

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