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Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Together For A Year But During That Year We Have Been Together As A Couple For 7Month. I Really Love Him And I Mean It When I Say That. I Am Not The Kind Of Girl That Goes Out Looking For A Boyfriend But When I Met Him I Do Believe It Was Love At First Sight. But The Thing Is His Been Acting Really different Resently.

Last Month We Both Lost Our Virginty To Each Other. But Since Then His Been Acting Really Weird And Things Have Gone Downhill. But I Dont Think He Has Used Me For Sex Because If He Did Am Pretty Sure He Would Have Left Me Already & All So a lot Of Other Girs Like Him But He Choose Me Out Of All Of Them.

He Always Winds Me Up And When I Get Angry I Turn Really Nasty. And Like He Does Things That Annoy Me & I Tell Him To Stop But The Thing Is He Carries On Doing It :S I Just Dont Understand Why. He All So Tells Me That I Am Argumentative. Hands Up I Admit I Am Very Argumentative But Am Trying To Stop. But Him Carrying On The Way He Is Aint Helping Me.

Its All Most As If He Like’s To Annoy Me & Get Me Upset & Make Me Cry. He Always Blaim’s The Fault’s We Have On Me. Like Everything That Happens Its All My Fault. And Am Getting Real Tired Of It. But I Cant Imagine Myself With Out Him. And I Cant Go Through Seeing Him With Another Girl Again. That Literaly Broke My Heart. Can Anyone Give Me Any Kind Of Advise Or Point Me In The Right Direction ? Would Realy Be Apresheated x

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Answer #1

Just don’t do as much as you use to do and let him know how you feel . He should understand that is if he really loves you like you love him. Do what you can to show him you love him and boys always have their moments.

Answer #2

erm, I know this isnt going to sound all that positive, but maybe one of you has caught an STD? and hes taking it out on you, or he knows he had an STD before hand, and hes trying to get you to dump him so he wont feel so bad?

On the other hand (the positive hand) maybe hes just going through a phase? ask him whats wrong. maybe hes having a hard time at home? or something like that.

good luck x

Answer #3

Titched ,, I Dont Think He Or I Have STD :L:L He Has Been Having Problems At Home I Have Onestly Tried To Be There For Him ,, Me&Him Cry Together Sometimes ,, I No It Might Sound Really Stupid , But I Sometimes No How His Feeling :/ Been There Myself ,, His Kind Of Pushing Me Away ,, But I Dont Want To Upset Him More ,, So I Wil Just Stop Talking About It ,,

x

Answer #4

Alesha08,, I Have Actualy Cut Dwn On Things I Use To Do , & I Thought It Would Make Things Better But Its just Gotten Worse ,, If I don’t Make An Effort To Talk He Wont ,, Then There Is No Communication Between Us , But Normaly I Wud Always Make The Effort But I Stopped,,

I Use To Always Express My Feelings,, But Me Doin That Does Nothing ,, Now That I Dont He Moans At Me Tellin Me I Never Tell Him Anything ,, Yeah They Do I Think His Having One Right Now ,, But I Feel Like Am In The Way & Sometime;s Think It Wud Be Better If We Was Seperated Until He Was Back Ontrack I Have Talked To Him About That ,, But He Just Tell;s Me No He Cant Not Be With Me ,, But Yet He Moans Like Hell ,,

x x

Answer #5

ok, sorry if I offended you with the STD thing. but I was just giving advice on what you had said.

I know you say youve done this, but look deep into his eyes, and ask him whats wrong. if he still doesnt tell you, suggest that he tells SOMEONE, even if it isnt you, just so he can get it off his chest.

hope this advice is a little better sorry about before xx

Answer #6

Titched Yeah I Will Try That Thanks (Dont Worry I Was Not Affended In Anykind Of Way And Your Adivse Is Rather Help Full Thanks Very Much) x

Answer #7

Sex changes a relationship for couples who are dating, and usually its not for the better. I suggest trying to BUILD the relationship instead of complicating it more by having sex. Communication is very important, and if all you two do is feed off one anothers anger, then it seems you two just are not compatible with one another. Dating relationship should be fun, not full of arguments & drama.

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